Doesn’t it drive you crazy?
You meet a guy, you smile, you chat for a while, and then you give him your phone number. You’re waiting for him to call you, but instead he gets into a text game with you. But wait, let me ask you this question…
When a man DOES call you, do you pick up the phone?
If you miss his call, do you ring him back right away?
Or do you just text him back and carry on with the texting game. Back and forth you go, without actually speaking or arranging a date. In today’s modern digital world, everyone is so confused. Nobody knows what to do when they meet someone. Should we call? Should we text? Should we Tweet?
We’ve become paralyzed by the different ways we can communicate, and most guys have no idea what to do once they have your number. Guys send me emails all the time, and they have no concept of what they should be doing. If you don’t answer his texts or calls, the chances are he’ll have a meltdown trying to analyze what’s going on!
So here’s the deal…
If you have life at the other end of your phone; If a man is texting or calling you, respond to him as quickly as possible. He’s making an effort to connect with you, and if you leave him hanging, he’ll disappear back into his man cave in a state of confusion, and probably won’t come out again.
Most women complain guys never call them, and then when they do they don’t answer his calls. If you do that, guess what happens?
If you have life at the other end of your phone; If a man is texting or calling you, respond to him as quickly as possible.
He assumes you’re not interested and goes away. If he’s getting in contact with you, don’t overthink things, and don’t worry about what to say. Just respond to him. Connect with him. Get to know him. See if there’s any chemistry between you.
You have someone on the phone that’s alive, breathing, and willing to go out with you. So, keep the momentum going. That’s what dating is all about. Be happy you have someone who wants to connect with you. I’d love to hear your thoughts on this?
Do you answer guys calls right away, or have you been “trained” to make them wait?
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