Women ask me this question all the time. “Why do men watch porn? I’m with a great guy, and we have a great sex life, but he still insists on watching porn. Why won’t he stop?”
So why do guys watch porn?
To be honest, I believe men watch porn because they don’t want to tell women what they really desire sexually. And from a woman’s point of view, it’s difficult to know exactly how to turn a man on. If he doesn’t talk to you about his fantasies, it’s impossible.
I have to tell you, I haven’t watched porn since I was about 14 years old. I remember when I watched my first ever porn. It was a film called, “Swedish Erotica.”
I took it from my Dad to see what it was. I sat there wondering, “This is what sex is? It looks really fake to me.”
Men are visual. They like to see sex. They like to watch others engaging in their sexual fantasies.
Admittedly, I was a mature 14-year-old, but I could tell the people in the porn weren’t genuinely connecting with each other. I didn’t arouse me at all, and no porn ever has.
But here’s something you need to realize…
Men are visual. They like to see sex. They like to watch others engaging in their sexual fantasies. They like to watch sex, and imagine it’s them in the film. They love to see women dressed up in something sexy, or using toys. They want to see things they don’t normally see with you. They want to watch things that turn them on.
So what am I saying?
Very simply, the best way to get a guy to stop watching porn, is to become his real-life porn. You have to become his deepest sexual desire and fantasy. The only possible way you can do that, is by finding out what turns him on.
If you don’t know you need to ask him. Find out what he wants. Ask him what turns him on in the bedroom. Let him know you want to become his sexual fantasy. Make him watch you turn yourself on. I promise he’ll go nuts for you.
Become your man’s porn, and you won’t catch him in front of the laptop in the middle of the night. Don’t be afraid to let yourself go. Let loose, and enjoy yourself sexually. You’ll have so much more fun, and your man will be overjoyed!
You’re a gorgeous, sexual, desirable woman. Scream, shout, pant, and let go. You’ll have an amazing time, and porn will be a thing of the past.
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