I know that I catch a lot of flack for how focused on looks I am on my show, Millionaire Matchmaker. Honestly, though, I’m not focused on looks personally. I’m focused on looks because my clients are focused on looks. And they’re focused on looks because, well, everyone is attracted to someone. Your physical appearance matters. And that’s a fact. But of course, being attractive isn’t solely about looks. There so much that goes into being attractive that’s well beyond physical appearance. That’s why I was so glad when I read this article that highlights exactly what, aside from looks, contributes to being attractive. I couldn’t agree more.
Confidence
It doesn’t matter if you’re a two or a 10. As long as you love yourself, chances are that you’re off the attractive charts, and someone will notice that. So, rock out, girl! Strut, twirl, smile. Make it clear to the world that you’ve got an awesome sense of confidence, and you’ll be a magnet for male attention.
How you make him feel
If you want a man to find you attractive, make him feel awesome about himself. Think about it. The word “attractive” means that someone’s attracted to you. Would you be attracted to a dude who made you feel kind of blah? No freaking way. And dudes are the exact same way. So compliment your guy. Cook his favorite meal every once in a while. Make him feel as special as you think he is, and you’ll keep that attraction alive.
Grooming
Now, I know, grooming kind of is physical. But grooming is actually very different than your looks. Grooming is taking care of yourself, which should be happening regardless of your natural-born level of attraction. A man will feel more worthwhile and successful if the lady on his arm takes a few minutes to curl her hair and put on a little makeup. The time you spend on yourself reflects how you feel about him. Remember when you first started dating and you’d spend hours thinking about your outfit and planning it down to your panties? Just keep that kind of energy in mind and put in the extra grooming effort when it makes sense, and you’ll be rewarded by how attracted he is to you.
Joie de vivre
Loving life and being a bundle of enthusiasm goes a long, long way toward being attractive to the other sex. Everyone wants to be excited to wake up in the morning. Sleeping next to someone who loves life and is pumped to get up out of bed makes that a lot easier. So be someone who sees the beauty in life, smile as much as possible and enjoy every day. You’ll attract the right guy with that kind of attitude.
