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Let’s talk about sex, baby! Specifically, let’s talk about your orgasm and how to get your man to give you the best one of your life. Because, yeah, sex is about intimacy and creating a bond with your partner, but it’s also about having your favorite person in the world make you feel as good as possible. So, I talked to my favorite sexologist on the planet, Dr. Emily Morse, to get some tips to help your man give you the ultimate orgasm. She’s the host of the Sex With Emily podcast and author of Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight, which is a must-read in my opinion! Read more
We, as adults, are all about long-term investments. We invest in our 401k, we invest in our dream homes and our dream cars. We invest in a relationship that we believe will go the distance. And yet, we never think to invest in one of the most vital aspects of that relationship — our dream sex life. We focus so intently on the other pieces of the puzzle, and let sex just fade into the background without even realizing how important it really is. Read more
The holiday season is now upon us, and with it comes the inevitable heaping of holiday stress. What was once the most wonderful time of year has now become the most draining. There is nothing romantic or magical about mandatory office potlucks, overcrowded shopping malls and expensive trips home for the holidays — It turns out that Love Actually was actually full of crap.
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Dear Emily,
I recently started dating a new guy who is really great in bed. I’ve been in relationships where I felt like my pleasure wasn’t a priority, but this guy loves to make me feel good — and he does, frequently! Now I want to return the favor. The problem is, I’ve only got a few tricks up my sleeve and he has seen them all. So besides the usual hand jobs and blow jobs, what’s something I can do to really amp up the pleasure for my new beau? How can I wow him in the bedroom?
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Dear Emily,
I have a problem with masturbation — I can’t do it.
It’s not that I’m a prude about masturbation. Believe me, I have tried time and time again! I know what I’m supposed to do and I get how to do it, I’ve masturbated in front of a partner before and it was GREAT. But when it’s me by myself, I just can’t seem to get into it or even get to a place where it feels good. Since I’m doing the actual touching part the right way, I know it has to be something about my mindset. What am I doing wrong?
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Dear Emily,
My boyfriend of three years and I have decided that we would really like to spice things up in the bedroom, but we're having trouble coming up with something that will WOW us both.
He has proposed the idea of a threesome several times throughout our relationship, and I've always ignored it or changed the subject. I just wasn't sure how I felt about it. But now that we're looking to try new things together, I'm wondering if I should give the threesome idea a chance. On the one hand, it sounds like it could be a really fun time, but what if it changes things between us? So my question is, can a threesome ever be a good thing for people in a relationship? And if so, how can I tell if my relationship is ready for one?
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