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Stop the O-Blocking: Breathe Deeply For Better Sex
Q: Dear Emily
In the past year, I have been on a mission to have regular orgasms and since I’m currently single, this has been mostly a solo mission. I’ve been taking all of your advice: I've got the sex toys and the lube, I know where all my hot spots are and I know how to touch them, but I’m still only orgasming a third of the time. It’s so frustrating! Sometimes I will be right on the cusp of climaxing, but Read more
Ladies of the world…
There’s something important I want you to know. You’re a beautiful, open, sexy woman; and it’s perfectly OK to be direct, passionate, and a little bit naughty. Don’t forget humans are sexual beings. We’re allowed to have your sexual energy turned on. In fact, to meet men you HAVE to have your sexual energy turned on. I love women who are direct, naughty, and a little kinky sometimes. I respect it, and most high quality men will respect it too. Read more
It’s every woman’s fantasy. A strong, confident, sexy man, who’s so desperately devoted to you, he’d never even look at another woman, let alone sleep with her. Not only is your relationship amazing, but also the sex is off the hook. He drives you crazy, and you drive him wild in bed. It’s all sounds so perfect!
The reality is, few relationships look anything like this. Why is that?
One of the areas I believe people get seriously wrong in their relationship is sexual compatibility. What do I mean? Read more
You’ve started dating this great guy. You’re ready to take your relationship to the next level, and decide to start having sex. The big night arrives. You smell fantastic. You look gorgeous. You even treated him to a sexy lap dance. To show him how serious you are about him, you go down on him, but once you’re there you see he’s as erect as a string of spaghetti you threw at the wall to see if it was cooked. Now what? You want him to enjoy sex with you. How comes he isn’t hard, and what can you do about it? Here are three things to think about… Read more
Thanks everyone for making this the best year of Sex with Emily yet. I couldn't do it without all the amazing (and sexy) porn stars, experts, and courageous men and women who shared their sex and relationship stories with me. And of course I couldn't do it without my listeners. Read more
Many consider the Hand Job (HJ) a lost art form– an uncherished relic from Sophomore year of High School. When a BJ seems too ambitious, you give a dry-handed tug. The hand job is often done half-assed because people don’t put their hearts into it, and don’t use nearly enough lube.
Man mastered the hand job on himself out of necessity. He realized around age 13 how amazing his penis is, and how no one will even think about touching it for at least two years. But even if you don’t know the exact rhythm and pressure he prefers, you have the advantage of not being his left hand, and having breasts (among other things).
While the hand job might not be your go-to move in the bedroom, you should definitely give it a second chance and work it into your rotation. Sure, many guys might think, “I’ve got this, why do I need my girlfriend to give me a HJ?” Well, those are the guys who haven’t had it done the way I’m about to explain to you. It’s just like scratching an itch. Sure, you can scratch your own back, but isn’t it better when someone else scratches it for you? (Note: Do not scratch his penis. This is a metaphor.) Read more
