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Stop Snooping on Your Men

Woman snoops on her man looking at his phone calls and text messages
Ladies… You know I love you all dearly, but today I have a little bone to pick with you. It’s about a very bad habit some women have, known as snooping. Now, snooping is not a term used to describe intuition, and “Having a feeling,” doesn’t excuse you having a dig around your boyfriend’s belongings. It’s never OK to snoop on your man. You have to admit that sometimes, women are prone to use their natural intuition as an excuse to snoop, and it’s something guys hate. I received an email the other day from a lady called Lana, all about this. Here’s her email and below is my reply… Read more

How To Deal With A Cheater

A man cheats on his girlfriend in the park
What do you do if your boyfriend cheated on you, but you still want to be with him?
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A Dating Killer: Assumptions

Woman looks through blinds
Would you date or dump if:
  • You were dating a woman who complained a lot about things going on in her life.
  • You found out the man you were dating still lived at home.
  • Someone with your religious background asked you out on a first date and wanted to take you to a religious service or event. Read more

5 Ways to tell he’s in love

A man in love with his girlfriend
Those first few months of a relationship can get your heart going like nothing else. I remember when I first started dating David. It was like I had a marching band in my chest 24/7. I still feel heartbeat pitter-patters when I’m with him, but they’re nothing like those massive heartbeat surges of a new relationship. Part of that newbie relationship heartbeat has to do with the excitement of meeting someone you connect with, but it also has to do with the uncertainty of a new relationship. You’re always wondering, could this be love? And that question really gets the heart pumping! To save you from heart palpitations, here’s a little list to use to see if you two are truly falling in love. Read more

5 Signs You Didn’t Get Laid on Valentine’s Day

Man is frustrated on bed that he didn't get laid
Listen up, fellas. I know you hate Valentine’s Day and that it’s a holiday created by a card company and blah blah blah. I like to compare Valentine’s Day to the Superbowl. A lot of women, including myself, could care less about football and in particular the Superbowl. But if I’m in a relationship with someone, I show up to the Superbowl party, root for the same team as my man and bring over some bomb dip (because I’m really good at making dips). I do this because I know it’s important to my man, not because I think the Superbowl is important. This same rule applies for Valentine’s Day. We know that you think it’s a stupid holiday, but it’s important to us ladies, so suck it up for one day and get over it. Read more

How to Negotiate the Ring

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