Tag Archives: relationship advice

What to do if your man’s an oversharer

I’ve been reading Not That Kind of Girl, Lena Dunham’s book of personal essays. I know there’s a lot of controversy surrounding the book, but one thing that no one will disagree on, not even the author, is that Lena Dunham is an oversharer. She seems to have no filter between what she thinks in her head and what comes out of her mouth. Or, in this case, between her brain and what her fingers type on the page. As a reader and a viewer of Girls, her show on HBO, I love that. But, reading her book, I can’t Read more

Why Your Ex Sucks

Did that get your attention? I knew it would. How did that statement make you feel? Your ex sucks. They are a complete pain in the butt. Read more

What to do when your family is annoying about you being single

Every single girl has been asked annoying questions about her relationship status by her family. It’s just one (of the many!) terrible parts of being single. (Of course, there are awesome parts of being single, too!) Sometimes, though, it goes past the point of pesky and can feel like an out and out attack. It can be super rough. I’ve been through it several times with well-meaning (but incredibly annoying) aunts and family friends and I have a few tips on how to deal when your family isn’t supportive of your single status. Read more

How to Keep the Passion Alive in a LDR

Dear Emily, I’ve never been a big believer in long distance relationships, but I just found out that my boyfriend of a year is going to have to move out of state for his job. He’ll will be gone for at least 6 months, possibly even a year. I don’t want to call it quits and neither does he, but we both have our doubts on how to make this work. Trust is not the issue, I’m more worried about losing the passion we currently have. How can we keep up the intimacy when we’re literally thousands of miles away? Sincerely, Long Distance Doubtful Read more

Masters of the Illusion

[caption id="attachment_17994" align="alignright" width="300"] Masters of illusion and marketing[/caption]Sometimes I think, when I'm on an online dating site, that women are either: A – masters of illusion, or B - understand marketing really well. As I peruse through the pictures, I think the majority of women over the age of 40 are masters of taking angle picture shots. I see pictures from above, I see pictures from the side, I see pictures from a 90 degree angle. Every single picture I see of a woman over the age of 40 is from an angle. It is never face on. If it is face on, it's always from a distance. Read more

5 New Year’s resolutions everyone in a relationship should make

Um, how is New Year’s Eve here already? I swear it was just a few weeks ago that I was rocking in 2015. Time just keeps moving more and more quickly! Anyway, I was thinking about what I wanted to say about New Year’s Eve and resolutions and I started thinking about how single people are always reading about what they should do to change their relationship status. But, people in relationships could use some advice, too. Not on changing their relationship status, but on improving their relationship. And a new year is always a great time to implement some changes. So, here are 5 resolutions every person in a relationship should make this New Year’s Eve. Read more