Tag Archives: monogamy
A common misconception is that my business is about dating. It’s not. It’s about relationships and love. My goal isn’t to set people up on good dates. It’s to find them long-term partners so they can build a life together. And to me, that means monogamy. I know there are other ways to have a successful relationship, but happiness in monogamy is my personal goal and the goal I set for my clients. I always help my guys and girls figure out when to define their relationships in terms of monogamy and I thought I’d share my tips with you, too. Read more
Hey Everybody,
Sorry, we've been away for a while.
But the Love Report is back!
And it's back with a bang. Or for some of you in monogamous relationships, it's back with maybe a whimper and a little less banging.
Join David and I today as we talk about relationship monogamy and monotony, and how to really overcome some of that when your relationship is just in that, oh-so-funky-slow period.
You’ll get a front row seat, as David confesses today about his raging single life (it’s pretty steamy).
Who's he dating?
What type of woman does he like?
Now I know all this because I've known him for so many years, so I know the exact type of woman that he likes.
And I give him a little tease here and there about where he's meeting all these women.
And…
I'm going to share something about my personal relationship that's just going to — well you have to listen to find out.
Alright, see you on the Love Report.
Patti out.
I had a great email from a lady named Claire last week. She asks a common question, but one that deserves addressing. It’s all about men and commitment. Yes, I know you ladies are all about commitment and trying to figure out why some men won’t settle down. So let’s see what I can share with you today!
Here’s Claire’s email and my reply below… Read more
According to an American Psychological Association journal article titled Happy Couples, along with the best selling book by Barbara De Angelis titled Are You the One for Me?: Knowing Who's Right and Avoiding Who's Wrong, pointed to five discernable qualities that a partnership must have to be successful.
Try to seek these qualities in your partner and make sure you take the risk to open yourself up to truly find out these qualities about someone else. This means you will need to critically analyze this person with fairness and total objectivity. In doing so, this can result in a deeper connection with this person and save you a lot of time and trouble as it will ensure you are on the right path to picking the right matches for yourself.
On the other hand, if someone does not meet these basic criteria then you should not consider this person a fitting partner for yourself and have the strength to walk away. Read more
In my last blog I wrote about common myths about cheating. Research indicates that infidelity is on the rise, with more relationships being affected by it. If good people are cheating, how can you tell if your partner (who I’m pretty sure you think is a good person) is cheating on you? It’s not easy to detect given that most affairs are not discovered.
Although people can be very effective at compartmentalizing their lives that their affairs are never discovered, there are a few things to consider if you have any suspicions. You can’t tell if your partner is cheating based on just one piece of evidence, but you can look for a pattern of behavior that’s different from the norm in your relationship. Read more
I know what you see of my clients and me on the show is prep for the first date and the first date itself, but I’m actually very involved with my clients throughout the entire beginning phase of their courtship—on both the millionaire and the match’s sides. Basically, until the couple decides to be monogamous, I’m there. Once they’ve committed, I take a step back and let their love blossom unassisted.
One of the many things I’ve noticed is that date three is probably the most telling date of an entire relationship. After a third date, all I have to do is ask my clients a few questions and I’ll know right away if this relationship is destined for love or a quick fizzle. Here are the questions for you to ask yourself: Read more
