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Today I have very basic, yet powerful advice for you ladies. Men and women think VERY differently. Men don’t read into everything like women do. If you get a text message from us that says, “Shall we meet up later?” we actually do mean, “Shall we meet later?”
If we say, “I’m tied up today. Can we do tomorrow?” We really mean, “I’m tied up today. Can we do tomorrow?”
There’s not any hidden agenda or underlying secret. 99% of the time, we mean what we say. You don’t always need to analyze what we’ve said, or try to second-guess what we’re thinking. Don’t waste hours thinking, “Hmmm, what does he mean by, he’s tied up today? Does that mean he’s seeing another woman? What’s he thinking? Does he want me to chase him?” Read more
The simple truth is that, in most cases, it takes women longer to orgasm than men. I get asked all the time, ‘Why is it easier for men to orgasm than women?’
Women also ask for ways to make their man last longer during sex because they aren’t getting their chance at orgasm, and sometimes it’s men asking what they can do to prolong their moment of orgasm. The bottom line is that it takes men an average of five to six minutes to reach orgasm, while it takes women an average of 15 to 20 minutes. That’s what is called the ‘Orgasm Gap,’ and it’s an issue that almost all couples have to deal with at some point in their sex lives. Read more
The saddest thing about my job is when my clients’ relationships can’t be saved. But what I find to be most frustrating is when their troubles could have been prevented. It’s super easy to derail a relationship, and knowing what leads to a relationship’s end can also help you prevent it from happening. Read more
Ladies, sit down, relax, and pay attention, because I’m about to show you how to avoid any more dating stress and anxiety. I’m about to show you how to avoid the trap of relationship expectations. But what are relationship expectations, and how do you know if you have them?
Well, let’s say you start dating a new man. He’s amazing in every way imaginable. You start to think to yourself. “I can’t believe how lucky I am. He’s amazing. This is the perfect relationship for me.” Read more
Here’s something to consider. When you describe your perfect partner, how often do you include baggage in your list of desires?
How many times do you look for emotional issues in your ideal man?
The chances are you NEVER deliberately look for men with baggage, because baggage comes with its own set of problems. So what if you met a guy who was perfect in every other way, except for the fact he was carrying around something from his past that still affected him today? Read more
I have so much to say about this I don’t even know where to begin. First off, as a woman, of course we prefer to be pursued.
We are feminine and lady like and we want our prince charming to come find us, fight for us and win us over. Just like in the fairy tales.
This is all well and good, but when it comes down to it, our relationships don’t always pan out to be that fairy tale that we dreamt of. Read more