Hey single girls, I have some advice for you and it’s really simple. Just say “yes” as much as possible. That’s it. It’s a small word that’s going to have a huge impact on your life if you say it more often. I promise. So many of my single girlfriends say they want love, but shut themselves off to it by saying “no” or “yes, but,” more than they say a plain and simple “yes.” Here’s why I think they need to change that and I think you need to, too.
New experiences
Saying yes will get you out of your single girl rut and into a whole new world of experiences. You’ll wind up at weird workout classes, parties where you don’t know anyone and seeing parts of your hometown you’ve never explored. Saying yes will bring you all kinds of new and wonderful experiences and new experiences are where you meet new people. If you keep going to the same places and doing the same things, you’re just going to meet the same people. And if you’re single now, it seems to me like you’re not clicking with the people you’re meeting. So, take a risk and meet new people.
You never know
You’re single, which means you haven’t found the right guy. So, I think we can both agree that you’re not an expert on who would be perfect for you. You don’t know. When I suggest possible set ups to some of my single friends, they’ll response with, “He’s not my type,” or “I can tell from his picture that he’s not for me.” Um, there’s no way they can know that without meeting him. Their “type” clearly isn’t working for them if they’re single. Sometimes what we need isn’t what we think we need. So, just say yes to pushing your boundaries. You never know what you’re going to get.
Positivity attracts positive things
Saying yes more makes you a more positive person. And being a positive person brings positive things into your life. I know I sound like a hippie, but I fully believe that. Think about the happiest, most fulfilled people you know. I can guarantee that they’re the most positive people you know. Start working your way toward being more positive so you can join their ranks. Saying yes as much as possible is a great first step.
Who has had a door open for them just by saying “yes?” Tell me about it in the comments.
