Private Parts… Why do men send pics of their stuff?
A lot of women have the problem that men treat them as sexual objects.
I was looking at a friend, a Facebook friend. I was looking through her profile. She asked me to critique it.
She was wondering why men are always talking sex with her the second they meet.
She said she’s constantly getting hit on. She’s constantly getting propositions.
She tries to date online. She showed me the pictures she’s using and she just can’t figure out why men don’t see her for the smart woman that she is.
As I proceeded going through her Facebook page, the answer came to me within 20 seconds.
It starts off with a beautiful smiling shot. She’s an absolutely gorgeous woman.
The next shot shows her in a low cut dress with her breast implants showing almost 90% out of her dress.
It’s okay. She chooses to get breast implants. That’s fine. It makes her feel great. That’s wonderful. Whatever we choose to do with our body is okay.
But I looked at every single picture she has. There was not one picture that didn’t show a massive amount of cleavage.
As a matter of fact, I was shocked that some photos actually had lingerie showing.
Even on her selfies, you could see from the cleavage on up.
If you want a man to treat you for your amazing mind, you can’t market yourself as a bimbo.
I love sexy women. I think it’s beautiful. But if all I am seeing is tits, non-stop, thrown in my face. It’s going to trigger something in me.
It’s going to trigger the primal desire to bend you over the kitchen table and fuck you.
It’s going to trigger me wanting to get you naked and devour your body from head to toe.
It’s not going to trigger me to wonder about what’s going on inside your mind.
Every man is going to feel the same thing.
It’s wonderful if you love your breasts. It’s wonderful if you love your body. But if that’s how you are marketing yourself, then you’re only going to get men who want to treat you like a porn star.
And you don’t want to be made love to like a porn star. Men jerk off to porn stars.
Jerking off takes men a minute. So if they have sex with you, maybe they’ll last two minutes. We all know there is no way in the world that you’re going to be sexually ravish or desired.
Take a look at how you market yourself and realize your photos are going to attract exactly what you either want or don’t want. If it’s all tits and ass, you’re going to get guys who will send you dick pics on Tinder.
You’re going to get dick pics, because that’s how men are thinking. Immediately they think with their dick. They see you and they think with their dick and they are going to come onto you that way.
It’s amazing how many women I look at online and I see pictures of bikinis and bodies. It’s great that you’re putting it up, but the problem is you’re going to attract the wrong guy every single time.
So you’ve got a dynamite body, you can wear a t-shirt and a pair of jeans and look really sexy.
If you really want to show that you’re the girl next door with a naughty side, put a picture of you in a t-shirt and pair of jeans with your hair pulled back. They’re still going to see how amazing your body is, but you’re going to eliminate the guys who want to bang you instantly.
You’ll eliminate the men you are triggering with a primal urge to bend you over the kitchen table. You’re going to stop getting dick pics, and you’re going to stop getting texts about men wanting you to come over when you haven’t even met them yet.
It’s how you present yourself online, on Facebook, on dating sites. It’s how you present yourself to everybody.
That’s the reason you’re attracting the wrong type of guy.
