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How to Rock At ‘Woman On Top’

Q: Dear Emily,

I like to consider myself a fairly sexually educated girl, but I have NO idea what to do when it comes to being on top during sex. The few times I have tried it, I felt so awkward that it ended up killing the mood. Now I’m worried that my inexperience will be obvious to my next partner.. Are there any tips you can give me to help me get better at girl-on-top?

Angie

by Dr. Rodman
Posted at 11:03 am on November 4, 2014

Reader Usual Problem writes: Hi, I've been following your "Functional Couple Friday" articles (I'm always curious to find out what other couples do to maintain their relationships) and I've noticed that a lot of the couples who seem the happiest, have similar levels of sex drive. This is not the case with me (32) and my partner (23) of two years. When we met we were instantly drawn and attracted to each other. In the beginning we had sex at least 4 times a week, often more. As we settled in to the relationship, my sexual appetite became less. My mood is easily affected by external factors, such as financial issues, health issues, and small annoyances. I get the strong sense that he is convinced that my sex drive is below average. I know it's important for (many) women to invest time and effort into sexual activity and I'm trying to do that but I also often feel quite pressured. I know if it was up to him, we'd be having sex every day and somehow that knowledge is always in the back of my mind, pressuring me. Read more →

Are You A Time Bomb?

by David Wygant
Posted at 12:15 pm on October 31, 2014

What is a 30-day time bomb? A 30 day time bomb is when we create powerful stories based on our needs, wants, and desires. Then we turn the person we're dating into exactly what we think we want, need and desire. We're not seeing is the real person in front of us. Read more →

Makeup Finds That Last

by Sparkle Tafao
Posted at 11:30 am on October 31, 2014

Ladies if you’re anything like me you are busy and don’t have time to check if your lipstick is on our teeth or if your blush is now on our significant other. We need makeup we can apply quickly that will stay where we put it, on our face. I’ve found a few fail proof products that make looking your best last longer. Read more →

The Problem With Texting

by Karen and Kristy The Ambrose Girls
Posted at 2:24 pm on October 30, 2014

The days of actual phone calls and men showing up at the door on a whim are so far gone, they might as well be back in the stone age. Past generations had no idea how lucky they were to have these as standard forms of communication when dating. They struggled with deciphering mixed messages based on actual conversations, voice-to-voice and face-to-face. I never thought I would be envious of a generation’s lack of technology, but texting and dating have proved otherwise. Read more →