One of my male friends is 5'7". He's been on Match.com and told me his message inbox is radio silent. He will message women and they won't respond, and doesn't receive messages initiated by women either. But then he told me, "Anita, just for fun sometimes I change my height to 6 feet, and then my inbox gets flooded with messages." Several of my male clients are on dating app and mention that of the first questions that women ask them is their height. When they say they're 5'9" or 5'8", they don't hear from them again. The average height for men is 5'9"!
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ARIES.
(March 20 - April 19):
Be wary when someone reminds you of something you supposedly agreed to. This could be the first you ever heard of it.TAURUS.
(April 20 - May 20):
Anything that looks like it’s too good to be true usually is. And just because it’s dressed in facts and stats doesn’t make it any more substantial. Read more
It is the summer of break ups for celebrities, huh? Gwen and Gavin. Ben and Jen. Will and Jada. And then not Will and Jada. There’s been a lot of talk of big celebrity couples ending their relationships this summer. Some of it gossip. Some of it legit. Of course the internet has exploded with information and opinions about these splits. There’s some really despicable coverage of this stuff and total privacy invasions. News like this is always hot topics for those in the public eye, but it got me thinking about how people who aren’t in the spotlight also have to deal with breakup rumors and gossip. So, I thought I’d share some ideas on how to talk about a breakup in your friend group the right way.
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ARIES.
(March 20 - April 19):
This is the time to be upbeat even if things look dubious. Accent the positive and you motivate! Dwell on negatives and people will tune you out.TAURUS.
(April 20 - May 20):
Your relentless pursuit of a matter gets attention. And it won’t all be negative. In fact there’s someone who’s quite intrigued by this side of you. Read more
Dear Emily,
My boyfriend of three years and I have decided that we would really like to spice things up in the bedroom, but we're having trouble coming up with something that will WOW us both.
He has proposed the idea of a threesome several times throughout our relationship, and I've always ignored it or changed the subject. I just wasn't sure how I felt about it. But now that we're looking to try new things together, I'm wondering if I should give the threesome idea a chance. On the one hand, it sounds like it could be a really fun time, but what if it changes things between us? So my question is, can a threesome ever be a good thing for people in a relationship? And if so, how can I tell if my relationship is ready for one?
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