What if you stop liking your guy?

I’m #obsessed with Bachelor in Paradise. It’s such a great show for someone who’s professionally interested in love. You get to see so many scenarios unfold in super heightened circumstances with insanely intense timelines. The whole thing is fascinating! Anyway, one of the most dramatic parts of the show is that couples will form and then after a few days, one person in the couple will change their mind about the relationship and want to move on. These couples won’t be officially dating, so the break ups are always a bit murky. I’ve seen some people on the show handle this beautifully and some do it with far less grace. (Cough, Joe, cough!) If you’re casually dating someone and change your mind about moving forward with them, here’s how to handle a break up with someone you were never even officially together with. Read more

Daily horoscopes: October 2, 2015

ARIES.

(March 20 - April 19):

You know someone will have a knee-jerk reaction to suggestions, so don’t provoke. Persuasion and gentle encouragement work best.

TAURUS.

(April 20 - May 20):

A friend comes to you for advice on how to handle a thorny matter. Offer to listen, but don’t intervene. It’s pricklier than you know. Read more

What to do if your man cheated and everyone knows

Cheating. Let’s talk about it. With the AshleyMadison.com data leak, how could we not? It feels like it’s the only thing I’m hearing about recently. With news of Josh Duggar having an account, a prominent Christian family vlogger, and non-celebrity friends finding out their men were on the site, lots of people are buzzing about the topic. So, I thought I’d dig into this ugly topic and help women out there who may have cheating partners. Read more

Daily horoscopes: October 1, 2015

ARIES.

(March 20 - April 19):

You’re about to realize your potential. You always knew you had it in you. What you didn’t know, however, is that it would be easier than you think.

TAURUS.

(April 20 - May 20):

Someone who was condescending before does an about-face and is now all kinds of solicitous. Play hard to get. You know this person needs you more than you need him. Read more

Daily horoscopes: September 30, 2015

ARIES.

(March 20 - April 19):

The more you try to defend yourself, the deeper you sink. Quit while you’re ahead. Agree to the other party’s demands and you’ll resurface.

TAURUS.

(April 20 - May 20):

Keep information close to the chest for now. Speculations run rampant and you don’t want to add to the growing firestorm. Read more

Be The Change You Want To See in The Bedroom: How to Initiate Sex More

Q: Hi Emily, I have a question regarding sex with my fiance. We really only have sex on the weekends, maybe once or twice on Saturday or on Sunday morning. He works long hours and is often very tired after work, and he has stated on multiple occasions that he doesn’t feel like having sex when he is tired. Personally, I would love to be getting busy more often, but I always end up feeling like he’s just not into it. Read more