When they’re shiny and new, nothing’s more thrilling than a relationship. There’s just so much that’s unknown and high stakes. But, once that newness wears off, relationships can simmer down into something that’s, well, boring. That doesn’t mean your relationship is doomed or over or even that you have to be this bored for much longer. If you want to pep up your relationship, here’s what to do. Read more
ARIES.
(March 20 - April 19):
You believe in having high expectations and enjoy the challenge of meeting them. But sometimes you have your off days and nobody would blame you for lowering the bar.
TAURUS.
(April 20 - May 20):
It's easy to say that you'll check in later, but loved ones need to know that you care now.
GEMINI.
(May 21 - June 20):
Just because everyone's confused doesn't mean you have to be. Look for holes in their logic and you'll find your through-line.
CANCER.
(June 21 - July 21):
You'd rather settle matters one-to-one, but that doesn't look possible. Discreetly seek the advice of an objective third party.
LEO.
(July 22 - Aug. 22):
You've asked a loved one to forgive you one too many times. You need to be more serious about your promise to change. A foible has evolved into a bad habit.
VIRGO.
(Aug. 23 - Sept. 22):
You want to do what's right, but don't want to sacrifice. Unfortunately principles aren't easy. Their job is to make us reach for our higher selves.
LIBRA.
(Sept. 23 - Oct. 22):
You can't move ahead with an enterprise until cutting ties with another. It's easier than you think. Don't turn a no-brainer into a headache.
SCORPIO.
(Oct. 23 - Nov. 21):
You may feel that someone else's business is your business, but it's not. The cornerstone of trust is respect for boundaries and you need to show some.
SAGITTARIUS.
(Nov. 22 - Dec. 20):
Loved ones are the first to label and the last to change their minds. Recasting yourself won't be easy, but don't give up.
CAPRICORN.
(Dec. 21 - Jan. 19):
Good fortune will soon be making a long-distance phone call. Don't ignore the call-waiting signal.
AQUARIUS.
(Jan. 20 - Feb. 17):
Don't let the urgency of the moment force your hand because you're going to have to live with the consequences. Take all the time you need to make your decision.
PISCES.
(Feb. 18 - March 19):
You have strong feelings about a relationship's potential, but what about the person on the other end? Try to separate wish from fulfillment.
ARIES.
(March 20 - April 19):
Every ending carries the seeds of a fresh start so don't forestall the inevitable. Bring matters to a close and your new life begins today.
TAURUS.
(April 20 - May 20):
Uranus, the planet of revolution and change, reenters your sign today. Last year it was just dipping a toe in the water. This time it's here for good.
GEMINI.
(May 21 - June 20):
You're looking for a solution that isn't forthcoming right now but that doesn't mean it's not on its way. Try being more patient.
CANCER.
(June 21 - July 21):
Developments are afoot that will bring about a change of residence or lifestyle. Don't worry. It will be an improvement.
LEO.
(July 22 - Aug. 22):
Uranus in your solar midheaven for 7 years brings extraordinary changes in your career. Your path may look humble now but you'll never believe what lies ahead.
VIRGO.
(Aug. 23 - Sept. 22):
You know you're going through a lot, but people change and the best friendships are those that foster growth - not stifle it.
LIBRA.
(Sept. 23 - Oct. 22):
You weigh things in the balance, but that doesn't prevent you from snap judgments. Colleagues will be caught off guard by your decisiveness.
SCORPIO.
(Oct. 23 - Nov. 21):
It's hard to see how changes in your partner's life will bring changes in yours, but believe it. These will be more galvanizing than you know.
SAGITTARIUS.
(Nov. 22 - Dec. 20):
Relations with loved ones are improving, but it's still one step forward/three steps back. Everyone's doing the best they can.
CAPRICORN.
(Dec. 21 - Jan. 19):
Don't make what's easy harder for yourself by fretting. You're more prepared than you know. Just do what you do best.
AQUARIUS.
(Jan. 20 - Feb. 17):
Don’t get too settled in because Uranus in Taurus for the next 7 years will bring many twists and turns. Oh the places you'll go and the things you will see!
PISCES.
(Feb. 18 - March 19):
This an exciting birthday month! Many things you strived for last year (and without much success) will come together now.
One of my favorite single girlfriends just came back from a terrible first date. She had a whole list of very valid complaints, but a certain one stuck out to me. She said he talked about his job way too much. Now of course, this was just a first date and not a full blown relationship, but it got me thinking about how involved a woman should actually be in her man’s career. Read more
ARIES.
(March 20 - April 19):
"No pain, no gain" is an apt motto for you nowadays. Yes, you've been through more than your fair share of troubles but there's no denying that the prize is still worth it.
TAURUS.
(April 20 - May 20):
What looks like a short-cut will only cut you short in the end. Stick with the tried and true.
GEMINI.
(May 21 - June 20):
Mercury turns retrograde right at a pivotal point. You're going to have to take it on faith that what doesn't materialize now will at a later date.
CANCER.
(June 21 - July 21):
Make sure you don't create a situation where you wind up catering to the squeaky wheel. This could create animosity with those who feel taken for granted and deserve better.
LEO.
(July 22 - Aug. 22):
The planet of transactions reverses direction today. Don't put out any more money until you've collected on all of past debts.
VIRGO.
(Aug. 23 - Sept. 22):
Oh, no! Mercury turns retrograde. But it's for your own good. Instead of relying on your wits, you'll have to follow your heart.
LIBRA.
(Sept. 23 - Oct. 22):
You can't stop someone from doing what s/he wants, but if you try being more lenient then this person won't stray.
SCORPIO.
(Oct. 23 - Nov. 21):
A desired prize goes to a rival at work. Let it go. This has nothing to do with you and your job performance. It's all about balancing the scales.
SAGITTARIUS.
(Nov. 22 - Dec. 20):
You're going through a lean period when you will have to do without the usual amenities. Belt-tightening now will reap enormous benefits in April.
CAPRICORN.
(Dec. 21 - Jan. 19):
Don't feel guilty pushing back a deadline. A client may be disappointed, but it's all in service to doing the best job that you can.
AQUARIUS.
(Jan. 20 - Feb. 17):
Don't let a friend discourage you. Just because things didn't work out for this person doesn't mean you'll meet with the same fate.
PISCES.
(Feb. 18 - March 19):
A client or love interest suddenly drops out of sight. Others would panic, but you know this person will resurface when it's time.
ARIES.
(March 20 - April 19):
You spent days rehearsing a confrontation, so it's a surprise when you compromise instead. You look stronger when you don't fight to get your way all the time.
TAURUS.
(April 20 - May 20):
Is a prize really worth the trouble? Mull it over. What looks like little consequence now could trip you up on the 26th.
GEMINI.
(May 21 - June 20):
You're too invested in one outcome. Listen to people's thoughts and ideas. You'll know the right one when you hear it.
CANCER.
(June 21 - July 21):
You may not have been serious when you said you were looking for something new, but the person who responds today is sincere. Check it out.
LEO.
(July 22 - Aug. 22):
A friend or loved one is moving up in the world and wants to take you along. Considering how long s/he's ridden on your coattails, why not?
VIRGO.
(Aug. 23 - Sept. 22):
You're so focused on the result that you're missing out on the process. It's like a mystery novel. What's the use of reading it if you skip ahead to the end?
LIBRA.
(Sept. 23 - Oct. 22):
Just because you can't do it all doesn't mean it won't all happen. What looks overwhelming becomes manageable when you take things a step at a time.
SCORPIO.
(Oct. 23 - Nov. 21):
Check the expiration date on foods and meds. Life has been hectic lately and you don't want to take any chances.
SAGITTARIUS.
(Nov. 22 - Dec. 20):
Things may be fine in your cubicle, but what about your neighbor's? Ask what's up. You'll nip a problem in the bud.
CAPRICORN.
(Dec. 21 - Jan. 19):
Whether it's branding, incorporating, or registering a domain name, you'll want to make things official before the 29th. Your idea is too precious to leave unprotected.
AQUARIUS.
(Jan. 20 - Feb. 17):
Rein in self-sacrificing tendencies today. There's no reason to pay a high price for something that will resolve itself given time.
PISCES.
(Feb. 18 - March 19):
It's hard to tell if someone wants to be left alone or not. Leave him be. He needs to take care of a private matter on his own.
