The only times women should have their own money in a marriage

I’m a huge proponent of women managing their own freaking money. Too many women I know let the men in their lives completely manage their finances with no visibility into their own dough. That’s a recipe for disaster. I know money stuff isn’t fun. But, sorry to break it to you – you’re an adult and not having fun is part of the job. So, put on your big girl panties and own your finances, even when they’re joint finances. That being said, some women don’t have all of their money in joint accounts. Read more

Daily horoscopes: October 1, 2018

ARIES.

(March 20 - April 19):

It's time to get serious about a certain property or family matter. But what looks like an open and shut case isn't.  It will take longer than you think.

TAURUS.

(April 20 - May 20):

Attempts to improve a situation may be futile if the other party is set against it.  Be sure you stand a chance before making the effort. Read more

Three Reasons Why People Are Bitter About Love

After 20 years of coaching, there seems to be a theme that is running rampant.

People are bitter about love.

One of the biggest reasons is obvious, but the other two are things that you can actually control and work on. So I’m going to list all 3, but also tell you how you can work on the things you have the power to work on. Read more

Daily horoscopes: September 28, 2018

ARIES.

(March 20 - April 19):

You think you've heard it all before, but that's just past assumptions talking.  Be open to new developments.  People can surprise you.

TAURUS.

(April 20 - May 20):

It's natural to pad the truth, but who could have known so many people would buy into it?  Be gentle when serving the reality check. Read more

Daily horoscopes: September 27, 2018

ARIES.

(March 20 - April 19):

You have a better head on your shoulders than you think, so don't lose it when people criticize and test.  You'd do the same in their shoes.

TAURUS.

(April 20 - May 20):

Don't focus so much on a result that you jeopardize accomplishments. There's a way to have it all. Discovering how is a sign of your ingenuity. Read more

How and when to tell everyone you broke up

You know I love me some Housewives. I have really good girlfriends on the show, but I also love watching just because it’s good entertainment. And I have to say, this season of Real Housewives of Orange County is starting off particularly strong. I’m fascinated by Gina Kirschenheiter. She’s bold and brash in a way I love and I’m impressed with how she’s handling this split with her husband. She’s so calm and mature about the whole thing. It’s really amazing. Read more