When in doubt, follow protocol. It will always lead you to do the right thing when circumstances are questionable.
Getting the impression that colleagues are avoiding a particular topic? Follow their lead. You can always double back and inquire on Monday.
Refusing to accede to others’ demands is taking up too much energy. Yield the field. You’ll make life easier for everybody and yourself.
You’re close to paying back a debt so don’t stop now. Yes, money’s tight, but you’ll feel much better when this is behind you.
Pay attention to unspoken doubts. You may not be able to articulate how you feel, but what they’re trying to communicate is loud and clear.
You can say what you need to say without turning up the volume. Not only is it the respectable thing to do, but people will even listen.