Instead of grasping at straws, try engaging in your own process of elimination. Identify the things you can live without and discover what matters most.
The people in your life no longer need rescuing. They’re totally able to take care of themselves. Evidently you set a better example than you thought.
Stop targeting the answers you want and get to know the ones that show up. Not only will you be happier, but you’ll discover a new design for living
Be honest. The wind was never really at your back. Cut ties with a dead end project because a better one will be along soon.
You’re plucked from a fiasco at the eleventh hour. Not the way you saw things playing out, but at least you escape a situation that would have cost you deeply.
Be supportive and welcoming when a penitent lover or spouse reappears. He knows that he did wrong. Be gentle and he’ll cop to his bad before too long.