You need a new financial plan. The old one has run its course and doesn’t factor in recent developments.
You could let that fight go, but it doesn’t look like you will. Sometimes you just have to return fire with fire.
Just when you summon the nerve to make big life changes, life changes on you. Plans may be upset, but dreams will be fulfilled.
Don’t be so quick to mobilize the units because you may be dealing with only one sore loser instead of an angry uprising.
You two are in it for the long haul. What’s needed is less talk about your relationship and more physical reassurance.
You have enough stress as is and don’t need to add a faux fight to the mix. Agree to disagree and leave it be for now.