It’s great that people are free to do their own thing, but you can see no one will get anywhere unless efforts are coordinated. Rein ’em in.
The other party has no choice but to cooperate, but don’t force their hand. It’s best to let the realization sink in on its own.
Continue catering to others’ whims and you might as well stencil “welcome” on your backside. Pick a time to say “no” – just to keep them guessing.
Dig in your heels and others will tighten the squeeze or you can cooperate and they’ll be more forgiving. The decision is up to you.
Current antagonism may have less to do with your beliefs and more to do with the way you’re presenting them. Lighten up and others become receptive.
Take a head count of how many people you’re fighting with. If it’s more than three, rethink your approach.
