Playing it cool means, your vibrator is your only lover. Let’s face facts here. A vibrator is probably better than bad sex right?
I know if I was able to have multiple orgasms with a toy or tool, I’d use it on a regular basis. I’d rather that than have bad sex with people who didn’t treat me well, or I didn’t connect with or feel anything for.
But in reality what are we all really craving?
You’re craving someone that can wrap his arms around you every single morning and hold you tight. You desire a man who’ll listen to you. You desire a man who will connect with you. You want to be kissed, held, and touched like only a real man can. So what’s preventing you from meeting him?
One of the reasons is playing it cool. I can’t believe how many women play it cool. If you play it cool with me, I get bored and I’m done. Let me give you a for instance…
When I meet a woman, I’ll normally send them a text or email soon after. We’ll get into some playful banter, and I’ll end the banter with, “let’s hang out.” Then the next thing I know I get no response. The woman starts to play it cool until after the weekend.
What happens next?
As predictable as the weather in Southern California on a sunny day, the first thing I see on a Monday morning is an email in my inbox. It’s a very flirty message saying how excited she is about getting together, and a list of days she’s free.
But I love it. I had to wait 48 hours while she played it cool. She had to show me she was so busy at the weekend so I’d want her more. I see through this because I’ve been a dating and relationship coach for years, and I teach people all the time not to do it. I can see through the games, and most desirable, emotionally evolved men can do.
The flirtatious banter followed by days of silence pushes men away. Follow through.
Stop playing games. It doesn’t work. The flirtatious banter followed by days of silence pushes men away. Follow through. Keep the ball rolling. Keep the flirting going. Remember not all guys are as strong and confident as I am, so when you go quiet on them they think you’re not interested and disappear.
Most guys don’t understand the dynamics of game playing, and don’t know what they’re meant to do. It doesn’t attract them and it doesn’t make them desire you. If you keep playing those games, you’re guaranteeing your only lover will be your vibrator.
And while your vibrator may give you multiple orgasms, it will never truly fulfil you like the love of a good man.
