Finally, you’re dating your dream man. He’s hot, charming, intelligent, and sensitive. There’s just one problem. Your new boyfriend is already married. That’s right. Your new beau is already married and of course, his wife has no idea. It still amazes me how many emails I get from women, complaining about the “dating problems” they’re having with a married man. Sometimes the guy isn’t even married, he’s just in a long-term relationship. What’s even funnier is, these women are all convinced the guy is going to leave their wife!
If you’re dating a married man, then today you’re going to get a good old fashioned, David Wygant slap round the pretty face. The reality of your situation is this. This “dream man” of yours, will never actually be yours. Yes, he tells you how much he cares while you’re having sex. As he’s ripping your clothes off, you are the most important person in his life. The moment he’s finished his business, he’s right back to thinking about his wife and kids.
I don’t care how many promises he’s made you. I don’t care how many times he’s told you he’s leaving her. I don’t care how many secret holidays and dirty weekends you’ve been on. For some reason, so many of you women think it’s going to end in a fairytale, where he leaves the evil wife and runs into your arms. These men have the best of two worlds and they’re not going to give either up. He gets his food cooked, and clothes cleaned at home. He gets to see his children and family at home, and then he gets to have passionate, exciting sex with you. The chances are it’s only the sex and excitement this man is missing, and he’s getting it from you. He knows you’re falling for him and he’s taking advantage. Nothing more, nothing less.
He knows you’re falling for him and he’s taking advantage.
To me it seems so obvious what’s going on here, still every few days there’s another bunch of emails from women moaning about a married man treating them badly! What about the wife he’s also treating like an idiot. This man is full of promises, and you’re stupid enough to fall for them. I even had an email from a woman the other day that’d been “with” a married man for two years, and STILL thought he’d leave his wife!
Here is the simple fact. He won’t leave his wife. Think about it. If he was going to leave her for you, why hasn’t he already done it yet? If he really loved you the way you think he does, why isn’t he with you right now? It’s all a fantasy. It’s a fantasy to him the same as it is for you. He doesn’t have the spark and passion he once had with his wife, and you’re simply a cheap replacement.
When a man is serious about a woman, nothing will get in his way.
He knows you’re falling for him, and he’s delighted about it. When a man is serious about a woman, nothing will get in his way. When a man is serious about a woman, nothing and nobody will keep him from being by her side. If he’s making excuses about why he hasn’t left his wife yet, he’s telling you everything you need to know.
Simply put…
You’re a piece of meat. You’re a mistress. You’re shelter from the rain. You’re his toy. Sorry if that sounds tough but it’s the truth and you need to realize what’s really going on here. There is no love, and no romance here. Do you really want to spend your life as someone’s dirty little secret? I want you to find a man who belongs to you and only you. I want you to find the love and connection you deserve and you’re not going to find it with a married man. Harsh, but true. That’s just the way it is. If you want to find that amazing, evolved, relationship-ready man you crave, click below and I’ll show you where to meet him!
