In order to get good at something, you need to practice.
But if you’re like a lot of people, you’re holding out for the one person you truly want.
You spend many nights at home, alone, watching TV, cruising the Internet. Going on online websites searching for the one person you think is going to be great for you.
It’s not your fault for not wanting to go out. Who wants to waste time with people we don’t want to be with?
But, how are you going to be your absolute best on that date when you meet ‘the one’?
You’re going to have to practice. See, dating is really great, because it teaches you about yourself. When you’re out there dating, maybe one date a week, 52 dates a year, one of them is going to be the home run you really want. That’s all you’re looking for is one.
All the other ones are going to be an opportunity for you to interact with the opposite sex, and get better at it.
It’s just like anything else. The more you do it, the better you’re going to get. The better you get, the more relaxed you’re going to be. So when you’re finally on that date with that absolutely amazing man you crave, desire and want.
You know who he is. We all have a different fantasy. I don’t need to paint the picture in your head. It’s already there.
When you’re able to put in the hours, you’ll be able to show off on that date. You’ll be more relaxed than you would if this is the only date you’ve had in the last six months.
If it’s the only date you’ve had in the last six months, you’re going to be tight. And if you’re tight, you’re definitely going to blow it. And if you blow it, it’s only because you didn’t have the practice to get comfortable.
Go out and just have a good time. Work on your personality. Work on your communication skills. Work on getting comfortable around men. If you can get comfortable around the men you’re not that attracted to, you’re going to be more comfortable around the men you are attracted to
Think about all those dates that come up for you. Some men you’re just not as attracted to as others.
Go out and just have a good time. Work on your personality. Work on your communication skills. Work on getting comfortable around men. If you can get comfortable around the men you’re not that attracted to, you’re going to be more comfortable around the men you are attracted to
They’re just men. That’s all they are. They’re all wired the same way. Men can feel it when you’re out on a date and you’re all tense and tight
They see it. They see it in your eyes; they see it in your body language. They see it everywhere. So go out there and make dates. Do the things to get yourself comfortable with the entire process of dating and relationships.
If you don’t practice, and you don’t get comfortable, you are going to blow it when you finally meet the one you really want.
Dating is like anything else in life. In order to get good at it, you need to put in the time, the effort and the practice. If you do, you’re just going to get better and better. So look at these dates as practice.
You never know, you might like one of these men. He might surprise you. It really is that simple. Go out, enjoy the process and get comfortable with yourself. Your life is going to change for the better.
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