I have a lot of single girlfriends and a lot of single ladies in my database. All these single gals have one thing in common—they’re looking for love. And a lot of these women are looking for love specifically with a man over 40. I’ve been in that boat too. Dating in your twenties and thirties feels like shooting fish in a barrel compared to finding a successful, handsome, available man over 40. Sometimes, it can see like you’re looking for the chupacabra. But, I found my man and I 100% know you can find yours. Here’s where you can meet a fellow over 40 who has everything you’re looking for.
Online Dating
I know, I know. No one wants to hear that they have to go online to find love. But, if you’re not online, you’re not trying, honey. And that’s the truth! So, click out of this article, open a new tab and set up your freaking online dating profile! I met my mister online and I can’t recommend it more. You know the men you find online are single and looking for love. Plus, you can weed out all of those twenty and thirty-something youngin’s and focus on exactly what you’re looking for. Be sure your profile reflects the most attractive version of yourself and you’ll hook a honey, no problem!
Where They Hang Out
So many of my girlfriends complain that they never meet an appropriate guy. Guess what? I’m not surprised. These women are going to gay clubs, book groups and aerobics classes. What straight forty-something man is going to be at any of those places? Envision your ideal partner and then think about where that man would spend time. Go to those places! Take up golf, go to a riflery range, hang out at a cigar bar, take a tequila tasting class. Hell, even get your iPhone fixed at the Genius Bar! Go places your dream man would spend time and you’ll meet him. If you just stick to your usual schedule, doing the same old thing with the same old people, you’re just going to get the same old results—meeting no one worthwhile.
Set Ups
Be open to set ups! Let people know what you’re looking for and don’t be afraid to get specific. I’m a big believer in only getting what you want when you ask for it. Set ups are a great way to meet people, but people are often hesitant to suggest a set up and need a little encouragement. A lot of singles aren’t open to set ups or take the set ups too personally. I can’t tell you how often I’ve heard my friends complain about being set up with someone who wasn’t at their level. “Does she really think I’d be a good match with someone like that?” I’m so sick of hearing that! Everyone who’s setting you up is trying to do a good deed for you and just attempting to set up a fun date. No one can really predict chemistry, so they’re just shooting in the dark. Don’t take it personally! Thank them for the set up, explain it wasn’t a match and then say that you’d be very open to another set up, if they have any ideas.
Good luck! Know that your man is out there, waiting for you to find him! So, get to searching!
