Why You HAVE To Return The Favor In Bed!
I had a great email from a male subscriber the other day that I want to share with you. It says…
“Hey David, I’ve been seeing this amazing new woman recently. The sex is incredible. I love going down on her. In fact, after taking your advice on how to do it and the great reaction I get when I do, I’m getting pretty addicted to it.
Here’s my problem. She never goes down on me for some reason. Last night I was down on her for almost an hour. She had at least four orgasms. She loved it and we had great sex after. It was amazing but I’d just like the favor returned sometimes. What can I do?”
My beauties…
You know I love you all but in this situation, HE doesn’t need to do anything. SHE needs to do something or she’s going to lose a great man.
Here’s the truth. If a man goes down on you, and does everything he can to give you amazing pleasure, then the least you can do is go down on him too!
Some guys flat out refuse to give women oral sex, so if you’re with a guy who actually enjoys doing it, and he’s taking the time to give you powerful orgasms, then don’t be shocked if he feels like you’re selfish of you’re not returning the favor.
This works both ways too so I’m not pointing any fingers here.
I tell my guys all the time, if you want a woman to blow you, then you NEED to be going down on her. If you don’t, there’s no way you can demand anything from her.
So girls, if you love oral sex, but don’t like giving head, then you need to face your fear, or tell the guy if HE is the problem.
Maybe he has a “hygiene” issue down there. If he does, talk to him. Tell him he needs to shower before you’ll go near him. Tell him you don’t like ‘swamp balls’ smashing your chin while you’re down there. It’s all about communication. It’s what keeps relationships going.
I love going down on women, but if I’m with a woman who won’t do it to me, then I’m out of there. It’s just not fair. I suggest you work on your oral sex skills, and at least if you don’t love it, learn to life it.
If a man tastes bad, tell him. What about the guy in the email? He needs to talk to this woman and tell her how he feels. He’s going out of his way to please her. He needs to decide whether he’s happy to go without what he wants.
As for you… it’s an amazingly sexy thing to have that much power over a guy. I promise you, try it. Open your mind, open your mouth (literally) and you’ll get to really enjoy your man!
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