So how do you come onto a guy?
It’s not as easy as you think. And most women just don’t know how to do it. So let’s talk about the best ways to come onto a guy so he craves, and desires you more than any other woman he meets. Here’s the first thing you need to know…
Men like to chase. And when I say chase, I don’t mean you don’t answer his texts or calls, because that’s the quickest way to turn a man off.
The way to come onto a guy is to be responsive to his advances, BUT to tease him ever so slightly. When I send a woman a flirty message, I want her to respond to me. I want her to answer me quickly, and bait me a little more with each message.
Here’s an example. If I send a woman a text that says, “I had a dream about you the other night.”
I want her to say, “Oh really. What was it?”
I don’t want her to say, “Oh that’s nice.”
You see, men, just like women, desire connection.
I want her to be interested in my advances. If I’m being playful sexually, I want her to be playful sexually back. If I’m being loving and serious, I want her to be loving and serious in return.
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You see, men, just like women, desire connection. And in order for a man to connect with a woman he needs to feel flattered, honored, and sexually desired in ways no other woman has. When a woman knows how to come onto me, she captivates me. If I make a sexual advance, I want her to tease a little, and give something back. If I grab and go to kiss a woman, I want her to stop me, look into my eyes, and THEN kiss me.
You see, men need playfulness. That’s what the chase is all about for us. It’s all about giving and receiving. It’s like throwing a ball. If I throw you a ball, I want you to catch it and throw it back to me.
I remember one time I was dating a woman, and I sent her this funny little text. I was out somewhere, and I was thinking about her. We’d had great sex the night before so I send her this text. “Still thinking about last night. Can’t get it out my mind. I think I can still feel you right now!”
How did she respond?
She sent, “Oh, stop being silly.”
I was done at that point. I wasn’t being silly. I was coming on to her. I was trying to reignite the flame. I wanted to reignite the passion from last night. I wanted her to play with me. I wanted her to be playful too. As a man, I want to close her. That’s what the chase is about.
A lot of women don’t understand the dynamics of a chase. It should be fun and playful. Not serious and intense.
So the next time you want to come onto a man, remember, don’t back down. If he’s flirting, flirt back. If he’s being playful, be playful too. It’s all about the escalation of sexual tension between you. Relax and enjoy the experience. The more of your personality you let shine through, the more he’s going to want you.
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