I get tons of emails from women, but the question I’m asked the most is “How do I know what he’s really thinking?”
“We’ve been going out for a while. He seems to like me. We’ve even started having sex, but suddenly he’s gone cold on me. What’s changed? Did I do something to upset him?”
Well, let’s look at this situation shall we?
You’ve started a relationship with a man. You’ve taken your relationship to the physical stage. And you feel like he was starting to open up to you. Now he’s gone cold, there must be something going on in his head right?
I mean, men don’t just go cold for no reason do they?
Well, I’m going to put you out of your misery and give you the answer to that burning question…
He probably isn’t thinking as much as you think he is!
Women are notorious for wanting an answer to everything. You HAVE to know why he isn’t returning your calls, or why he suddenly decided the relationship wasn’t working for him. And you’ll go to almost any lengths to find your answer.
Your favorite place to look for answers is lunch with your girlfriends. You talk it over and over, you speculate, and you try to second-guess what your man is really thinking. You go through every possible scenario until you’re dizzy. Here’s the thing…
Does it make you feel better?
The chances are you end up even more confused than you were to begin with. Here’s what you need to do. The next time a guy goes cold on you, or stops behaving the way you’re used to, you’re going to ask him DIRECTLY what’s wrong!
You’re going straight to the source. I want you to ask him face to face what’s going wrong. Find out what’s going on in his mind. Find out why he stopped returning your calls. You have to find out from the guy himself; because that’s the only way you’re going to get the real answer. The other great thing is you’ll start to gain confidence and learn to speak up for yourself.
If I’m with a woman and she does something I don’t like, or behaves in a way that confuses me, I ask her about it upfront. There’s no guessing, and I don’t lay awake at night playing through the different scenarios in my head. You see in relationships you need to be open with each other.
You need to be able to talk about issues you have immediately. It’s the only way to build deep and trusting relationships. You’ll also save a bundle of time and stress worrying about things that really don’t matter.
So from this moment on, I want you to commit to end all dating speculation. If you want to know what he’s really thinking you’re going to walk that cute ass right on up to him, and ask him!
No drama, no speculation, and no second-guessing!
Do we have a deal?
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