Do you feel like you’ve been looking for love forever? Does it feel like you’ll never connect with the right man? Do you wonder where all the quality desirable men are hiding?
Women are forever telling me they attract the wrong men, or they never meet men who interest them, and then when I ask where they meet these men they tell me, “Oh in bars and clubs mainly.”
Let me ask you a question…
How many amazing, emotionally mature, relationship ready men do you think you’re going to meet, if the only place you actually look for them are bars on a Friday and Saturday night?
You need to realize that men are all around you, but WHERE you meet them is also going to have a big impact on how well you get on with them.
All you’re going to run into is drunken frat boys, who hunt in packs, and bet each other beer who can get a kiss from the hottest woman in the place. You need to realize that men are all around you, but WHERE you meet them is also going to have a big impact on how well you get on with them.
Let’s say you go to a club that serves cheap beer, and plays heavy rock music. You hate rock music but your friends want to go. Guess what kind of people are going to be at this club with you? That’s right. People who like to drink a lot of beer, and who enjoy rocking out to Metallica. How well do you think you’re going to get on with the men there? How likely are you going to be to enjoy your experience?
On the other hand, let’s say you love Broadway musicals, so you go to catch the touring version of your favorite show. Isn’t there a fair chance some of the men you meet there will also have an interest in Broadway musicals? You’ll have more in common, and you’ll be more open to meeting someone there.
I’m not saying you should only meet men doing things you enjoy doing, I’m just saying WHERE you meet them has an impact on the kind of interaction you’re going to have with men. Look at your lifestyle, and think about the places you spend your time. Men are all around you, and they want to connect with you. The challenge for you is to see them, and to be receptive to their interest.
With that in mind, I want you to check out today’s video. A group of men who openly admit they want a girlfriend, reveal some of the places they find it the hardest to meet women, and reveal some of the reasons they don’t approach you, even when they’re interested in you.
If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Why is this guy looking over at me but not approaching?” this will probably answer your question!
