I was training at the gym earlier, and as I watched a number of people training alone I started thinking to myself, “life must get lonely for some people.”
If you’re single, you wake up in the morning and you’re alone. You go to work, and you’re alone. You go training at the gym, and you’re alone. Then you go home, on your own.
On my way home from the gym I started looking into the windows of the houses I passed. I saw all the condos, apartments, and lofts. Where I live is in a Marina, which is mainly a loft district. As I looked in the windows, I could see people watch television, having dinner, and sipping wine, all on their own.
I wondered how many of these people were lonely. I know there are many lonely people out there. I know from the work I do. I read it in all the emails and letters I’m sent every day. In many ways, it’s very sad when you think about it. Sometimes life can be very lonely.
So what do we do to change it?
Most of us live our lives in a box. We get up in the morning and eat from a cereal box. We go to work in our box car or box subway. Then we sit in an office box and look at a computer box. We go back home to our box home, to eat our box dinner and stare at the flashing box. Then when we’ve had enough we go into our box bed and go to sleep. We spend all day confined in man-made boxes, but really we confine ourselves because of how we live our lives.
Think about it for a moment. You’ve become boxed in.
You’ve contained yourself so much, you don’t remember how to get out anymore. Yes, you might see friends now and then, but most the time you stay safe in the comfort of your box life. But then you get lonely and you don’t know why.
You might see friends now and then, but most the time you stay safe in the comfort of your box life. But then you get lonely and you don’t know why.
That’s why you HAVE to get out there and meet with people every single day. If you see someone you’re attracted to, go and talk to them. Don’t hold back. Make the effort to connect with men everywhere you go. If you don’t you’re going to be stuck in your box world on your own forever.
I remember as a boy, my Mom and Dad would tell me off if I watched too much television. They’d say stop staring at that idiot box David, and go outside and play. They were right of course. The more you stay stuck in your box the harder it is to get out.
I hope this gave you some motivation to get your butt out there and try to create a circle in your life. See, in a circle you can connect, and pull people in. Before you go out there today, I suggest to take a read of a blog I posted called, “How to Meet Men” which is all about how to stop being passive, so you can meet and attract the men you desire.
