Category Archives: The Sex Files with Emily Morse
Dear Emily,
Lately I have found myself not that interested in sex, and I think I know why. My long-time boyfriend and I have very busy schedules, and we don't have as much time as we used to in the bedroom. As a result, all of our sex sessions end up being what you might call “quickies”. He is totally happy to get in, get out and move on to the next thing, but these interactions just aren't satisfying for me. So now when he brings up the idea of sex, I make excuses or try to get out of it.
I've tried explaining my feelings to him, but he just doesn't get it. He thinks that I'm not interested in him sexually, but that’s not the case - I just feel like I need more! Am I being totally unreasonable? What can we do to make sex enjoyable again, for both of us?
Sincerely,
Sick of Quickies
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Congratulations singles! You have made it through the couple-heavy holidays and all that’s left now is the home stretch. Hold your single self together through Valentine’s Day and you’re worry-free until Thanksgiving rolls back around.
So with less than a week left to go until your official re-emergence into the social world, you’re probably looking for some new solo activites to keep yourself busy. Should you dive a little deeper into your Netflix queue? Or take up a hobby - Crocheting has always seemed relaxing right? Anything to take your mind off the candy hearts and happy couples parading down the street.
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Lubrication is a totally normal additive to sexual encounters. It not only helps, but can enhance your sex life. But sometimes finding the right lubrication can be tough. That's why Emily More is here with her tips and successions to make your decision easier.
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Let me guess: you have a love-hate relationship with New Years resolutions. On the one hand you like the idea of taking steps towards a fresh start. You DO want to start going to the gym more. You DO want to conquer that pesky coffee addiction. You DO want to learn how to use that dusty crock-pot
But as the New Year unfolds, all those resolutions eventually fade into the background and you fall back into your old routines.
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In case you haven’t heard, stress is very much the silent killer. From your health to your waistline to your ability to get a good night’s sleep, it has many unpleasant and downright unfair side effects. But there’s one more place stress also strikes, that hits a little bit below the belt.
Stress is one of the biggest killers of women’s sex drive. As if we didn’t have enough to worry about...
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Dear Emily,
I just got out of a long-term relationship. I still talk to my ex all the time and we’re really good friends right now, even though we live in different cities. He and I never had the most exciting sex life while we were together, but now that I’m single, I’m ready to have my sex life back! So I was just wondering what your advice would be for someone who is newly single and physically ready, but maybe not entirely emotionally ready? Read more