Category Archives: Sex
The simple truth is that, in most cases, it takes women longer to orgasm than men. I get asked all the time, ‘Why is it easier for men to orgasm than women?’
Women also ask for ways to make their man last longer during sex because they aren’t getting their chance at orgasm, and sometimes it’s men asking what they can do to prolong their moment of orgasm. The bottom line is that it takes men an average of five to six minutes to reach orgasm, while it takes women an average of 15 to 20 minutes. That’s what is called the ‘Orgasm Gap,’ and it’s an issue that almost all couples have to deal with at some point in their sex lives. Read more
Let me guess, either you or your partner wants more or less sex. This is a common case of “mismatched libidos.” And more common than you think. But what to do about it?
I know, it wasn’t that way at the beginning: you had sex like rabbits and couldn’t wait to pull each others clothes off at every turn and were always ready for action. Then, some time passed, maybe you moved in together, had some kids or got busy with your lives. Happens. But how do you keep sex a priority in the relationship? We discuss this very common issue on this weeks podcast. Read more
Dear Emily,I am 28 years old and I got married 5 years ago. I had never had sex before my marriage. I love my husband and we usually have sex twice a week. He always reaches orgasm and is always very happy, however, from the first time we had sex in our relationship, I’ve been unable to reach internal orgasm through intercourse. He always helps me reach orgasm by stimulating my clitoris with his hand. I reach my orgasm, but it doesn’t make me feel fully satisfied and I don’t like it. I like to reach orgasm internally, and reaching orgasm by his hand leaves me with the same feeling of masturbation. We’ve tried many different positions, but we haven’t been able to find an answer. Please help! Thanks a lot in advance, look forward to hearing from you.
Regards,
Molly
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Whether we’re all too busy or lazy or superficial, does it really matter why we’re dating online?
It’s almost expected to have tried digital dating these days if you’re looking for love but the new Tinder app turns dating into a game and those with delicate egos need not download. No matter how you slice it, the Tinder app is all about who you find visually appealing in 5 photos and 500 words or less.
As you swipe left or right to “like” or “reject” a prospect, your potential match does the same. If you both choose ‘like’, it’s a match. Some call it ‘the hook-up’ app and yet others have found love and even marriage.
I have no time to date, so I decided to do a live, blind Tinder date on the Sex With Emily podcast.
I set the mood and went for the full experience with dimmed lights, wine and of course a few Emily & Tony aromatherapy massage candles to set the mood.
My date “Chad”, isn’t afraid to get into his past, voice his opinion (about everything….) and give me a hard time. We talk about marriage, why relationships fail and sex as you age. Chad reveals secrets about his past, I shared my dating patterns As the date progresses, we have differing outlooks but maybe opposites attract? Let me know what you think and what have been your experiences on Tinder? Email me your questions and stories to feedback@Sexwithemily.com
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When your man seems more passionate about football than your sex life, you know something has to change. The honeymoon period is over and you can’t just get back the relationship you had by acting spontaneously. You have to work hard on your relationship to make the excitement and passion last.
If you wait to see if things will get better by themselves, you will only become more and more complacent about your sex life. It will become normal to not hold hands in public settings and skip the displays of affection. You will go through the motions of sex when you used to make love. Read more
We’ve all flipped through Cosmo tips on what men want in bed, whether it’s a twist of the wrist during a hand job or sexy eye contact during oral sex. Sure, technique is important, but Cosmo’s glossing over what guys want more than anything— a woman who is genuinely into sex and knows what she wants. Men don’t want you to just go through the motions. No one wants to have sex with a robot (well most people, anyway). Men want a woman who actually wants to have sex, initiates it, enjoys it, and is open to new things. Read more
