Category Archives: Relationships

Advice on everything related to love and relationships.

The Girl That Got Away

We recently read an article written by a guy about how every guy has a “girl who got away”. As predicted, the article discussed how every guy has some girl in his past who has come and gone and for whatever reason he just cannot forget about her. For most guys, its assumed that she was his first great love. So these poor guys (or poor every guy?) are left to live the rest of their lives to still think of her on occasion, why things went wrong, what they could have done better, and the fact that she is gone forever. Read more

The ‘Maninist’ movement

As women hunt and men gather, are we confused? Is the unbalance of nurturer and hunter affecting our family systems? This is what I ponder as I date men confused by the lingering effects of long term marriages, that held them in sexless contracts for over a decade! Read more

How to tell your friend you hate her man

We all have at least one friend who is dating someone we don’t like. Ok, that’s probably not accurate. We all have dozens of friends who are dating men we don’t like. And there’s at least one friend who is dating a guy we hate with the burning passion of a million and seven suns. Does that sound more accurate? Ok, well, what are your duties as a friend? Should you tell her? Well, I’m here to guide you through this sticky situation. Here are three questions you should ask yourself before you take the plunge into these sticky waters. Read more

How to apologize when you don’t mean it

A big part of a successful relationship is apologizing the right way. And a bigger part of a successful relationship is apologizing the right way even when you’re not 100% sorry. Every single person in a happy, long-term relationship will tell you that. I’m confident there are no exceptions. So, how do go about faking an apology to the person you try to be the most honest with? Well, let me educate you. Read more

Dating Agenda

Let me ask you a question today… Do you date with an agenda? Do you walk around with a checklist of the exact kind of man you want? A list of every single quality you’re looking for? Read more

Why Men Won’t Commit

If there’s one thing that pains me to hear from my female clients, it’s that the guy they’re dating is scared of commitment. In the dating stage it may look like inconsistent contact, last minute get togethers or booty calls. In a relationship, it may mean waiting to hear “I love you,” not moving in together or not getting engaged. Read more