Category Archives: Relationships
You guys know I'm all about communication. I'm not shy. Like, at all. For the most part, I like to be sure everyone in a 50 foot radius of me knows exactly what I'm thinking and feeling at all times. But, there’s one place where I can get a little quiet and I think most people feel the same way. I'm talking about speaking up in the bedroom and letting your partner know exactly what you want when it comes to sex. Open communication is key to a successful relationship and it's beyond important when it comes to a successful sex life. We all know it's important to speak up, but speaking up is easier said than done... Read more
Ah, break ups. They’re heinous on all levels. Even the best, most amicable break up is pretty effing bad. Believe me, I know! Going through the break up can be hell, but what’s sometimes worse is that there’s no light at the end of the tunnel. You keeping thinking about that final conversation, what you could have done differently, if you should have ended things earlier, what he’s doing now, who he’s doing now. The list goes on and on. And sometimes, so do your thoughts. It can be weeks and week or months and months of obsessing over the relationship. Even when you don't want to be thinking about your ex, you can’t stop. Well, here’s what to do.
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Guys, I am girl crushing hard on Amy Schumer. Have you all checked her out? If not, you have to go see Trainwreck, her hilarious movie, watch her show on Comedy Central, Inside Amy Schumer, or if you're lucky enough, go see her live. Amy is doing something deliciously new in comedy and I think it’s effing awesome. She’s all voice and I have almost peed my pants watching some of her stuff. Amy is currently single, at least, according to most of her jokes, but still, I think she has a ton of lessons to teach anyone about love.
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Today I want to bring into the open a subject that gets me tons of emails, but never seems to be talked about openly.
It’s something that seems to affect so many of you; I’m surprised it’s not an epidemic.
Millions of you are having bad sex regularly, and nothing is happening to change it for you.
You feel trapped in a cycle of bad sex, and you’re starving for an orgasm that you haven’t given yourself. The truth is you’ve convinced yourself you can’t have an orgasm now without a vibrator, and now no man can compete. Here’s the truth.
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Guys, I haven’t forgotten about my #AskPatti column at all! I've just been answering a lot more of the questions I get on Twitter during live chats instead of saving them all up to do a weekly column. However, I got this question tweeted at me and it deserves more of an answer than 140 characters. Read more
I understand.
