Category Archives: Relationships

Advice on everything related to love and relationships.

What to do when you’re not on the same page about going public as a couple

I’m not too proud to admit that I turn to YouTube to learn to do basically everything in my life. How to curl my hair. How to make the perfect omelet. How I've actually been eating apples wrong my whole life. And after I find what I’m looking for, I’ll often find myself in a YouTube blackhole, watching vlogger after vlogger. And one thing that’s consistent about these vloggers is that they talk about the struggle of having such a public personal life and trying to date. Read more

Overcome Your Body Issues

I don't know if I've spoken much about it, but one of my biggest passions is health and nutrition. I'm probably as passionate about that, as I am about coaching you to find love. It started when I was a young guy. I used to be seriously skinny, and my Mom used to nickname me her, "Long drink of water." Read more

7 Luxury fashion gifts every woman dreams of

If you’re newly dating a woman and deciding what to get her for your first big token of affection, go with something she can wear. Every woman would adore adding a brand new piece of designer clothing to her wardrobe. And what’s great is that clothing says that you’re very into her without the commitment signal that’s associated with jewelry. Don’t get me wrong, I love a good piece of jewelry, but it’s not always appropriate, especially early in a relationship. Designer duds, though? Always appropriate. Here are seven fabulous gifts that I’m 100% your lady with love. Read more

How to dine in Michelin star style no matter where you are

Michelin starred restaurants are undeniably an amazing experience. It’s not only about great food at restaurant of this caliber. It’s about the service, the exploration, the celebration and the whole evening’s worth of entertainment. I have absolutely loved each and every Michelin starred restaurant I have ever had the privilege of eating at. But as much as I wish they were, meals like that aren’t every day occurrences. First, I’d have to quit my job to work out enough to make up for that kind of eating! Second, there simply aren’t that many Michelin starred restaurants, and the choices are especially limited in the United States. Read more

How to tell if they’re dating you or your money

I’m the freakin’ Millionaire Matchmaker, so obviously I deal with a lot critics who tell me I don’t understand love if I put such an emphasis on money. To that I say, give me a break! There’s absolutely nothing wrong with looking for a life partner who is ambitious and successful. In fact, I think that’s the right thing to do for a bright and productive future. However, I know there are people out there who aren’t just looking for drive and achievement. There are gold diggers who are simply after money and don’t care at all about love. I weed those people out for my clients, of course. But for those millionaires, billionaires and gajillionaires out there who aren’t using my services yet, here are some ways you can tell that your boo isn’t dating you…they’re dating your money. (Oh, and sign up for my Millionaire’s Club. What are you waiting for?) Read more

What if you stop liking your guy?

I’m #obsessed with Bachelor in Paradise. It’s such a great show for someone who’s professionally interested in love. You get to see so many scenarios unfold in super heightened circumstances with insanely intense timelines. The whole thing is fascinating! Anyway, one of the most dramatic parts of the show is that couples will form and then after a few days, one person in the couple will change their mind about the relationship and want to move on. These couples won’t be officially dating, so the break ups are always a bit murky. I’ve seen some people on the show handle this beautifully and some do it with far less grace. (Cough, Joe, cough!) If you’re casually dating someone and change your mind about moving forward with them, here’s how to handle a break up with someone you were never even officially together with. Read more