Category Archives: Relationships

Advice on everything related to love and relationships.

How to deal when the haters are your loved ones

I’m a tabloid junkie. There. I said it. Now that it’s out in the open, we can move on. So many juicy stories in tabloids start with the phrase “a source close to the celeb says” and then fill in any salacious detail you want. It’s all been said and done and used in those smutty publications (which I adore! But still, totally smutty). I’ve been the subject of enough gossip stories to know that much of what they publish is garbage and completely unfounded, but every once in a while, it’s true. And a celeb will find out that someone they thought of as a trusted confidant is spilling their beans to whomever pays top dollar. Read more

Relationship tips you can learn from YouTubers

Do you watch YouTube? I mean, like, really watch it? Searching for a smoky eye tutorial on the rare occasions you have a black tie event is not I’m talking about. I mean subscribing to specific channels, following vloggers’ lives and seriously immersing yourself in YouTube as a social media network. YouTube’s been around for over ten years, but I’m just now getting into the medium as a serious fan. And, in watching these videos, I’ve thought of some valuable lessons YouTube can teach you about relationships.

How to stand up for yourself without ruining a relationship

Standing up for yourself is an important skill to learn for both your personal and professional lives. It’s even more important to learn how to stand up for yourself without alienating other people. Chances are the you feel the need to stand up for yourself because you want to continue your relationship with the person or people you’re standing up to, just on different terms. If you didn’t, you’d just walk away and hang out with folks who treat your better, right? When it comes to a romantic relationship, this applies, too. Sometimes your boo needs to be reminded how you expect to be treated. Here’s how to do it. Read more

3 Reason Why I Love Women

Sitting here tonight I started thinking about why I love women so much and where it all started. My love of women started at a very young age. I loved my mother. I protected my mother. I honored my mother. My mother was batshit crazy, but I loved her. I always made sure she was feeling good. It was my job in the house to make sure my mother was feeling good. Read more

A sex expert shares how to get your man to give you the ultimate orgasm

Let’s talk about sex, baby! Specifically, let’s talk about your orgasm and how to get your man to give you the best one of your life. Because, yeah, sex is about intimacy and creating a bond with your partner, but it’s also about having your favorite person in the world make you feel as good as possible. So, I talked to my favorite sexologist on the planet, Dr. Emily Morse, to get some tips to help your man give you the ultimate orgasm. She’s the host of the Sex With Emily podcast and author of Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight, which is a must-read in my opinion! Read more

Why your man should back out of your drama

Friends disagree, bicker and get into fights. That’s just part of being close to someone. When you spend a lot of time with someone and, in the immortal words of Real World, stop being polite and start getting real, there’s undoubtedly going to be friction. It’s a hard truth of friendship. And as supportive and involved as your man is of you and your life, he should not get involved. I know, he’s the most important person in your life. Why should he butt out of the biggest drama in your life? Well, here’s why. Read more