Category Archives: Relationships

Advice on everything related to love and relationships.

Why Facebook Is Dangerous & Not The Friendly World It Seems

The other day I started looking at people's posts on Facebook and it got me thinking: a lot of people make posts about exactly where they are and what they are doing. All of the time. And I just have to wonder: For whom exactly are they posting? Their followers? People who you don't really talk to very much anymore? While I was thinking about this I started to realize that Facebook is dangerous on so many levels. Let me explain why. Read more

What to do when your man is stressed but you need support

Relationships can be wonderful because you get double the joy, double the friends and double the fun. It’s a double-edged sword though, because you also get double the stress, double the pain and double the anxiety. As much as his dreams coming true mean your dreams come true, his suffering is also your suffering. It’s a big commitment to emotionally partner with someone because of these lows. Of course, the pluses should outweigh the minuses, but that doesn’t mean that the minuses aren’t there. They’re loud and proud and really hard to deal with. It becomes even more difficult when your man is in the dumps and you need support for something tough yourself. Here’s how to deal. Read more

3 Things to do before bed to make you a better partner

Being in a relationship is hard work. And that hard work is constant. It’s not like a job you can clock in and out of. A relationship is round the clock, 24 hours a day, non-stop, open at all hours work. And it can be exhausting. I talk to couples all the time who are just exhausted from the work it takes to keep their relationship functioning. I normally advise these couples to reframe the work they’re doing. Instead of viewing it as work, I try to get them to think of their relationship maintenance as habits. Read more

How to deal with your shared friends post-break up

When you date someone for long enough, your friends stop being “his friends” and “my friends” and start being “our friends.” (If that’s not happening in your long term relationship with at least some of your friends, you need to ask yourself some questions about the health of your relationship.) And the “our friends” family growth is a beautiful thing, until the break up. Then, it’s a totally messy thing. Dealing with shared friends post-break up is never going to be a dream come true, but it doesn’t have to be your worst nightmare either. Read more

What I say to people who think money doesn’t matter

As originally posted on MillionairesClub123.com I’m the Millionaire Matchmaker and my business started matching wealthy men with women who were interested in marrying them. Now, it’s expanded to include wealthy women looking for love, too. And I know that doesn’t rub everyone the right way because people are pretty loud about it. I hear things like, “It’s gross to be so focused on money,” “money doesn’t matter,” and “someone’s finances shouldn’t make them more or less attractive.” I hear it from TV producers, family members, potential clients and even randos when I’m out for brunch. Here’s what I say when I get these kind of comments. Read more

The Number One Reason A Woman Might Not Orgasm With A Man

A couple of years ago, I was with this beautiful woman. She was sexy. She was great. She was dynamic. But, in her 39 years on this planet she had never achieved an orgasm with a man. Read more