Category Archives: Relationships

Advice on everything related to love and relationships.

Three Tips To Get Your Ex Back

Mark this article right now with an asterisk, because I have absolutely no idea why anyone would want to get their ex back. It makes no sense to me at all. There's a reason they're called an ex. But, for those of you that would like to go through potential torture throughout your life, here are three valuable tips, which probably no one wants to hear in the magical society, on how to get your ex back. Read more

How to get a man to listen to your biological clock

Women and men are different. I know. That’s nothing new. But, it’s something I have to remind my girlfriends of on a regular basis because it’s easy to forget when you’re dating someone and feel so close and connected to him. You guys are on the same page about so much. But, when it comes to your biology, you two are different. And one way that manifests is in your biological clocks. Women who want biological kids are on a timeline that’s really short and men who want biological kids are much more flexible. Read more

How to go from dating to a relationship

I was recently at a friend’s summer BBQ and I met a new woman. We chit chatted for awhile and then I asked if she was the girlfriend of the man she walked in with. Her answer was, “Yes? I think so? It’s been about three months of dating. So, yeah?” My take on her guess is, “Uh, no!” You should know when you’re someone’s girlfriend. Definitively. And if you don’t, you’re not. It’s that simple. That’s not to say that if you’re in a prolonged “just dating” situation, there’s no way to level up to “in a relationship.” Of course there is! That big step up is basically how all relationships start. Here’s how to make the leap if you’ve been in a “just dating” plateau for a while. Read more

Why Men Ghost

Ghosting is the new way of blowing people off. It drives everybody crazy. It drives women crazy, it drives men crazy. You go on a few dates. If you want maybe two, even three or four dates. He's texting you. Read more

What to do when his work gets in the way

I’m basically writing this for anyone who dates me in the future. Change the “his” to “her” in the title of this post and you basically have the number one question my exes have struggled with. I’m writing it about “his work” now because that’s how the question normally gets posed to me. Granted, I have a bit of a skewed demo because I work with a lot more male millionaires than I do with female millionaires. And millionaires come with a lot of baggage. A demanding workload is generally a big piece of that baggage. Like, not a carry on sized piece. A checked luggage piece. So, if you’re dating someone whose work is getting in the way, here’s what to do. Read more

Why going to bed angry is actually a fine thing to do

I’m sure you’ve heard the adage “Never go to bed angry.” It’s age-old advice that I’ve heard repeated a lot. I was actually just at a wedding where the officiant said this to the about-to-be-wed couple and told them it was the only thing about marriage they needed to know. It’s traditional wedding day advice, but I’ve honestly never been one for tradition for tradition’s stake. And I have to say that I really disagree with it. You have to go to bed angry sometimes when you’re dating or married to someone. I actually think it can be good for your relationship to go to bed angry every now and then. Here’s why. Read more