Category Archives: Relationships
I was recently at a game night. It was a big group with some singles and some couples. We were all having a grand old time until one of the couples got a little competitive... with each other! The woman kept rubbing it in the man’s face whenever she’d win. And he clearly felt like crap about it, so he’d play a lot more aggressively. Let me tell you what kills a friendly game night: cutthroat competition. The rest of us were there to drink cocktails and have fun, but those two let their rivalry ruin the night for all of us. Read more
A friend of mine is coming to terms with the fact that her husband is an addict - drinking. It’s been really hard for both of them. They’ve been married for a while and he’s been relatively high functioning. He’s successful professionally and can stay sober for stretches of time. When he falls off the wagon though, he falls hard. Recently those hard falls have been more and more frequent and my friend can’t ignore them or write them off any more. She asked me how I think she should handle it. Here’s what I told her Read more
I have a rule, and when I follow it, it works out perfectly.
I call it 30/60/91/20, and it’s my foolproof way to expose someone for who they truly are. Here’s how it works.
The First 30 Days
When you meet someone new, you're under the influence of love like there's no tomorrow.
The person can literally murder somebody in front of you, and you won't even notice it. Read more
Millionaire men are their own species that’s a subset of normal men. When it comes to finding a woman to date, they look for most of the same criteria normal men do and then some. Bottom line is if you’re not putting in the effort the attract a normal dude, you’re never going to hook a millionaire man. But, even if you’re pulling out all the stops to attract a normal guy, you still could be falling way short on reeling in a millionaire man. In fact, you could be scaring them off. Here are three things that could be the problem. Read more
First impressions are critical when it comes to dating. Literally nothing’s more effective in making a match than instant sex appeal. But, so many of my clients don’t want to wear their sexiness on their sleeves, especially during the day. As a professional woman looking for love, I get it. You want to be attractive all day long and obviously don’t want to miss any potential romantic connections, but you’re not about leading with sex during daylight hours. So, how do you make yourself sexy during the day without feeling trashy? Easy! Eye of Love! Read more
Over Labor Day Weekend, as I was going through my life, my relationships, working with a great client, I realized something. From time to time, we all pick shitty people in our lives.
If I look back at all of my relationships, I've done pretty well. I've had a couple of bad ones in there, but I've done really well.
We've all picked men or women who are totally wrong for us, and we've all got battle scars from past relationships.
I call it PTDD, Post-Traumatic Dating Disorder.
Or PTRD, Post-Traumatic Relationship Disorder.
We all have it.
The question is Read more
