Category Archives: Relationships

Advice on everything related to love and relationships.

Why your parents should meet before you two get engaged

Meeting your boo’s parents is big time. It comes with a lot of stress and a lot of meaning for your relationship. So, I’m not trying to discount that experience at all. But, I have to say that you meeting your boo’s parents is nothing compared to when your boo’s parents meet your parents. It’s more people, more personalities, more moving parts and more parents. Add all of that together and you’ve got a really high stakes situation. Still, the stress and sweat are very worth it. In fact, I think it’s mandatory for your parents to meet before you two get engaged. Here’s why. Read more

How to push your partner when they’re not living up to their potential

In the movies, getting married or partnering up with someone looks like it’s all surprise romantic getaways and nights snuggling on the couch. In reality, it’s hitching yourself to someone else and letting your life be majorly impacted by how smooth their ride is. I know that sucks that magic out of coupledom, but it’s basically what a long-term relationship is. Well, sprinkle in the joys of companionship, some good sex and maybe even a few romantic getaways. But, what do you do when you feel like your partner could be so much better than they are? Read more

The #1 Thing You Need to Know About Someone’s Dating History

I went out the other night with a good friend of mine, a fellow coach. So of course when you put two coaches together, there tends to be a conversation based on feelings, emotions, dating, relationships. And we had a conversation about the history of people you date. I've always been a believer that, no matter what someone's history is, you can change the outcome of your next relationship. We proceeded to go deeper into this, and I've got something to share it with you. Read more

How to talk about your finances when you’re dating a millionaire

Money is a hard thing to talk about. Period. Add in discussing it with a romantic partner and it gets even harder. Then throw in a romantic partner whose financial situation is very different from your own and it’s hard to the power of even harder! But, sometimes personal finance conversations have to happen when you’re dating a millionaire. And while my tips certainly won’t make these talks easy, hopefully these three how-tos will make your conversation a little less hard. Read more

How to help your boo with anxiety

Anxiety problems are becoming more and more part of the conversation recently and I’m totally here for it. I’m seeing bloggers, celebrities and friends all come out from the shadows and share that they have anxiety issues. There’s no shame or blame in suffering from anxiety. What’s so great about more people stepping forward to talk about their problems is that more people are realizing they could be suffering from anxiety and seeking the help they need. Awareness is so important because it helps people stop suffering in silence. Just as the increasing awareness of anxiety prompts people to seek the help they need, a similar shift is crucial in the realm of substance abuse. The recognition that there's no shame in facing addiction is a vital step towards fostering a more supportive and understanding society. In the context of addiction recovery, the importance of long term treatment cannot be overstated. By incorporating comprehensive and extended interventions, individuals navigating the complexities of addiction can find the sustained support they need to overcome challenges and achieve lasting recovery. Read more

Beware of the “You Are” Man

I've got tools and skills that the average person doesn't have. 18 years of coaching people. 18 years of basically doing therapy on individuals. I can read people really well, and really fast. I can tell you if they're a narcissist. I can tell you if they're borderline. Read more