Category Archives: Relationships

Advice on everything related to love and relationships.

What to do if you’ve lost interest in sex with your boo

There hasn’t been a single long-term couple in history where at least one partner hasn’t experienced a little dip in their interest in sex. It’s just impossible to keep those new relationship sex vibes going long-term. When there isn’t much surprise or nerves involved in your sex life, it’s harder to get excited. That doesn’t mean that this dip is permanent or you two have fallen out of love. It just means you need to give your sex life a little more attention. Here’s how. Read more

How a trip to visit his family can actually be romantic

Spending a weekend, or even a week, visiting your man’s family doesn’t have to be a romance desert. Even though I doubt a trip home is anybody’s first choice for a couple’s getaway, a trip home can be incredibly romantic. Don’t see how hanging in the suburbs with a couple of retired people who only talk about bridge can romantic? Well, let me example. Read more

How To Know If You Had An Orgasm

Well, if you're a man, it's pretty simple. I don't need to describe it here because we all know exactly how a man orgasms. But I hear over and over again from women: “I'm really not quite sure I've orgasmed.” “I think I have, but I'm not sure.” My answer to that is Read more

How to deal when your family doesn’t know your man

A friend of mine has been dating her man for about 18 months and they’re ready to get engaged. I’m so happy for her and she’s so happy for herself, but she confessed to me that she’s a little bummed her parents and brothers don’t know her dude better. She lives in Los Angeles now and her family is back on the East Coast. They’ve met her man a few times and he even came home with her once, but he’s probably spent a total of five days with her family. Read more

3 Things you can learn from your first time at his place

Going back to a dude’s place for the first time is big step. Now, I’m no prude. I know this sometimes happens the night you meet a man. And I’m all for one night stands if that’s what you need, sister! Go for it! However, your one night stand men aren’t your forever men and they aren’t what this post is about. I’m talking about the first time you go over to a dude’s house when you’re considering seriously dating him. This home visit should probably fall somewhere between your first kiss and your convo about being exclusive. Read more

How to date your millionaire, even if he’s away for the summer

Millionaires don’t stay in one place for long. They travel a lot in general and most of them “summer” somewhere that’s not their home. It could be the Hamptons, Martha’s Vineyard, Whistler, Montecito or any of the fancypants, hard-to-get-to destinations that aren’t boiling hot during the summer months. If you’re dating a millionaire and aren’t summering with him – either because you’re too new of a couple to travel together or your responsibilities at home won’t let you leave for three full months – here’s how to keep dating each other despite the distance. Read more