Category Archives: Relationships
Hello, hello! Hope everyone had a fantastic week. I know I did. I had a lot of small, but great stuff happen to me this week, which felt so wonderful. The world can be a really magnificent place! I hope you all felt the same way about your weeks! One of my favorite parts of my week was checking the #AskPatti hashtag and seeing all of you questions pour in. I couldn’t answer all of them in this column, but I’ve noted them and will definitely get to them soon! Read more
Do you date online?
It’s not easy is it?
You have to wade through hundreds of profiles and incoming messages from men. Then you have to spend hours trying to figure out which ones you like, and which ones are complete frauds. That’s before you try working out which ones only want to wave their penises at you on a webcam. But the biggest issue with online dating for women, is working out which men are telling the truth on their profiles. You see, men have a habit of putting the superhero version of themselves on their dating profile. Read more
In my last blog I wrote about how love won’t necessarily come find you, so put yourself in situations to maximize your chances of meeting a potential partner. Although your surroundings are important, you also have to prepare yourself in order to meet someone.
One of the questions that I ask my single clients in their quest for love is: Do you believe that you deserve to have a good and loving relationship? What is your answer? If you expect good treatment and believe you deserve respect, you will get it; if you don’t, then you won’t. You’ll be much more likely to put up with bad or disrespectful behavior if that’s all you think you’re worthy of or that you won’t find anyone better. I have worked with many singles who, at their core, didn’t believe that they deserved a great relationship. So when they met someone who was drama-free and actually nice, they thought, “She is too good for me” or “This is too easy, how can this nice guy like me?” and ended any possibility of a relationship. Read more
Hello, my men. I know you’re on here too and I also know that men are always looking for little ways to make their women feel special. And nowadays, everyone’s trying to save money. So, I thought of five really easy and completely affordable ways for you to make your woman smile and come off looking like a total Prince Charming. You’re welcome! Read more
Do you have men calling or texting you during the night asking you to talk dirty?
Are you actually in a relationship with these guys, or are they just “friends?”
If you’re not dating them, you’ve become nothing more than a booty call. You’re nothing but the female voice he calls when he’s on his own, and feels horny. He could watch porn, but tonight feels like some real interaction with a woman. Lucky you! Read more
I can’t believe we’re already this far into January! Is it just me, or is 2014 flying already? Before you know it, it’s going to be Valentine’s Day! Speaking of, I’d love to answer any and everything you’ve ever wondered about Valentine’s Day. Would you please tweet your questions at me from now until February 14th with the #AskPatti hashtag and I’ll do my best to get every single one of them answered. Now, onto this week’s questions. Read more