Category Archives: Relationships
When a couple first becomes engaged, and the waves of “Congratulations!” have begun to subside, some of the very first questions that their friends and family will inevitably begin to ask them is, “So what is your wedding theme?” or, god forbid, “What are your wedding colors?”. Although some might disagree with me, I strongly believe that the couple is, and should be, the theme of the wedding. Read more
Valentine’s Day is right around the corner, so I thought I’d take make this #AskPatti all about your V-Day Qs. I know that the most romantic day of the year isn’t always the most comfortable, no matter what your relationship status is. Putting a lot of pressure on love can make even those most romantic person in the world squirm a bit. (Trust me. Even I’ve gotten itchy around Valentine’s Day and love is my life!) If you’re single, married, dating or “it’s complicated-ing,” I’ve got an answer for you! So, let’s dig in! Read more
Here’s a question I get all the time from my female readers. “Can players change and become loyal, caring boyfriends?”
Can womanizers change their ways and become devoted loving husbands?
The answer is very simple. 100% yes they can. I used to be a womanizer myself. Back when I was in my 20’s I couldn’t stop dating. I was addicted to women. I loved the whole chase. Some of my friends even gave me the nickname, “Spot the Dog.” Read more
Yes and No.
Yes if you see Valentine’s Day as a mandatory time to express love – you go through the motions because you feel obligated but don’t honor or feel the emotional significance.
No if you use February 14th to make a big splash in your relationship and create an extra special connection. Then it can be worthwhile and memorable!
In fact, there are three levels of connection that you can use in your relationship, each a particular ritual. A ritual is a repeated and intentional action which can help you feel closer to your partner in both little and big ways: Read more
