Category Archives: Relationships

Advice on everything related to love and relationships.

The Time We Slowed Down

In Los Angeles, people are always busy. Busy in a meeting, busy on a conference call or even busy on a conference call trying to arrange a meeting. I honestly think I have a better chance of coordinating dinner with the President than I have with some of my friends these days. When I finally get people to meet up for dinner and a little human interaction, it’s a battle to see who can stay off their phones and concentrate on being present and enjoying the moment.  I have always promised myself that I would never be one of those people, too busy to make time for his close friends. Read more

6 Ways To Make Your Relationship Incredible

No matter what type of relationship you're in, I truly believe that every relationship can be better. You could be neglecting certain parts of your relationship, or maybe you feel like some of the spark is gone. Regardless of where you are at in your relationship right now, here are six simple tips to make it that much better (and to help you make it outstanding)! Read more

How to choose between two guys

I’m in the middle of catching up on The Bachelorette. No spoilers, please! I’m pretty behind. Even though I’m early in the season, I’ve formed some fan feelings for a few of the guys. It looks like Andi has some very serious feelings for a bunch of them as well. It got me thinking about deciding between men. This isn’t just a problem in reality TV competition shows. It happens in real life. With online dating and busy schedules, a lot of my friends wind up stacking dates and getting into separate relationships at the same time. I know you women out there who can’t even find one dateable guy think this is insane. But, trust me, when it rains, it pours. You could be dealing with a very similar situation in the near future. Here’s how I advise my friends when they’re dealing with choosing between two guys. Read more

Why Has He Stopped Having Sex With You?

Frustrated woman wonders why did she stop having sex with me
Your man has suddenly gone off sex. The alarm bells are ringing in your head. It’s time to panic! Or is it? Do you want to know the REAL reason men “go off” sex? I’ll tell you in a minute, but first let’s look at how women normally react to this situation. In my two decades of coaching women, I see two reactions from women. The first thing that happens is you’ll ask your friends what they think, and most the time they’ll ask if you think he’s cheating. Now you have a seed of doubt in your mind and you’re worried.   Read more

How To Deal with the Monotony and Monogamy

The Millionaire Matchmaker Love Report
Hey Everybody, Sorry, we've been away for a while. But the Love Report is back! And it's back with a bang. Or for some of you in monogamous relationships, it's back with maybe a whimper and a little less banging. Join David and I today as we talk about relationship monogamy and monotony, and how to really overcome some of that when your relationship is just in that, oh-so-funky-slow period. You’ll get a front row seat, as David confesses today about his raging single life (it’s pretty steamy). Who's he dating? What type of woman does he like? Now I know all this because I've known him for so many years, so I know the exact type of woman that he likes. And I give him a little tease here and there about where he's meeting all these women. And… I'm going to share something about my personal relationship that's just going to — well you have to listen to find out. Alright, see you on the Love Report. Patti out.

What if he doesn’t want kids, but you do?

Woman holds her newborn baby
Let’s get serious for a second and talk about deal breakers. There are superficial things, like chewing with his mouth open, using too much hair product or using the word “literally” to actually mean “figuratively.” When it comes to deal breakers like those, I say get over them and get over yourself. Literally, and I actually mean literally, no one out there is perfect. You’re going to have to accept some flaws if you want to find a life partner. That being said, there are some deal breakers that simply can’t be gotten over. And the kiddie question is one of them. Here’s how to deal if you’re dating a man who doesn’t want kids and you do. Read more