Category Archives: Relationships

Advice on everything related to love and relationships.

Why Your “List Of Dating Non Negotiables” Needs A Second Look!

                            In Los Angeles, beautiful people are everywhere. They come from all parts of the world to seek out that dream of becoming a movie star, singer or dancer. But with the blessing of beauty for these fine specimens, comes great responsibility. One must eat right, exercise and as I like to say it…. lead a boring life of sugarless latte’s and gluten free dinners with no dessert! Read more

Sex And The Single Mom: Finding Your Confidence Naked

Knocking boots with someone new as a single mom is a scary thought for a lot of people. Prior to your separation or divorce you probably shared a bed with the same person for years. Most likely, that person understood the toll a pregnancy, C-section and/or breastfeeding took on your body because they were there by your side through it all. Read more

What your “Break Up” Style Says About You

Let's face it: Ending a relationship can be one of the most difficult things you have to go through in your life. As a relationship expert and psychotherapist, I've seen many people's reactions to a relationship that just didn't work out (some pretty, and some not!), and I've learned that the way a person reacts to this hardship really says a lot about them. I've compiled a list of 4 types of break-up personalities I've seen and my take on what's really under the surface. Read more

What Do Men Want In A Woman?

What is it that men desire in a woman? If a man could describe his perfect woman, what would she be like? These are just two of the questions women have been looking for answers to for generations, and to be brutally honest, they are questions that don’t have an actual answer. You see, despite what some “experts” tell you, there isn’t one type of woman all men go for. Read more

When Is The Right Time To Say, “I Love You”?

Have you been keeping up with The Bachelorette this season? I’m obsessed with the show in general, but this season isn’t doing it for me. Everyone just kind of seems vanilla to me. There aren’t really any bad boys or rule breakers. And as much as I hate to use this phrase, it does seem like everyone is there for the “right reasons.” Of course, that’s a good thing for Andi. At the end of the day, you don’t want to end up with someone who’s trouble. But, it does make for less exciting TV viewing. One thing I’ve noticed more this season than any other is how quickly the men are telling Andi they love her. Marcus told her on the first date, which she seemed to dig. But, that felt way, way too early to me. I take love very seriously (I made it my business for crying out loud!) and if anyone told my clients or me on a first date they were in love, it would be creepy, not romantic. So, here are some tips for when I think it’s the right time to say, “I love you.” Read more

Why You Need To Ditch Your Married Man TODAY!

Finally, you’re dating your dream man. He’s hot, charming, intelligent, and sensitive. There’s just one problem. Your new boyfriend is already married. That’s right. Your new beau is already married and of course, his wife has no idea. It still amazes me how many emails I get from women, complaining about the “dating problems” they’re having with a married man. Sometimes the guy isn’t even married, he’s just in a long-term relationship. What’s even funnier is, these women are all convinced the guy is going to leave their wife! Read more