Category Archives: Relationships

Advice on everything related to love and relationships.

How to deal when your ex’s wedding pictures hit Facebook

  I don’t know about you all, but I was absolutely dying to see Lauren Conrad’s wedding pictures. She has so much style. I just knew her special day was going to be an amazing spectacle and so inspiring. And she didn’t disappoint at all. What I loved the most about the pictures I saw was that she looked like herself. So many brides spend their wedding day dolled up in an uncomfortable dress and makeup that’s so different from what they normally wear that they’re just not themselves at their weddings. Not Lauren Conrad! She rocked her signature beachy waves and winged liner. She simply amped up her normal look with some glitz and glam, instead of totally departing from her daily style. Loved every single thing about it. Read more

The #1 Reason You Don’t Connect With Men

Sometimes I look at the emails I receive and think, “Is this serious? Is this person joking? There’s no way anyone could be writing this to me seriously!” I had an email like that today. I want to share it with you today. It says… Read more

It’s Never A Cute Look To Lose Yourself In A Relationship

It can be easier than you think to lose yourself in a relationship. Extremely intoxicating relationships can be negative at times as they can somewhat hypnotize you to a point where you find yourself spending all your time with that person and not even realizing. If you’re always with your significant other then you are choosing to give all your time to one other person, not your friends, family or most importantly, yourself. You need to make sure to nurture all relationships in your life and give them equal attention as they each serve a different purpose in your life. Read more

How to Fall Out of Love

A common problem presented to me is, “Anita, I love my partner, but I’m just not in love with them anymore.” Usually my clients don’t realize that they were active participants in falling out of love by the choices they made over the course of their relationship. Frequent pitfalls they seem to experience include: Read more

I Finally Found New Love, But There’s One Problem… He’s Married

Reader You Know What I'm Going To Say writes: Help!!! After a 30 year marriage where I was the breadwinner, I finally left.  For 5 years I remained busy, happy, and alone.  Then I met Mike.  Bang, love at first sight.  It was 15 months of heaven, joy, laughter, companionship, sex was regular, fun, healthy, and exciting.  So here's the problem.  He's married, with a 17 year old son. His wife has an illness.  His son is going to college and is soooo spoiled- dad's boy and mummy's baby.  Until he goes to college Mike won't leave home- but then what?  Am I setting myself up for hurt? Read more

How To Make His Parents Like You

Has anyone been to the drugstore recently? I just went yesterday and there was already some Christmas stuff up. I was floored! I’m Christmas’s Biggest Jewish Fan (It’s an official title!) but come on, CVS! Let me at least enjoy Halloween before you start up with Christmas. One holiday at a time, please! But, seeing all that red and green got me thinking about the holidays and all the fun and stress they bring with them. So, I thought I might as well start talking about some topics that can help ease the stress of holiday time. First up is meeting the parents and how to make sure they like you. Here we go!

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