Category Archives: Relationships

Advice on everything related to love and relationships.

What if your man doesn’t like your new look?

I have been noticing a major trend among celeb women recently—the massive hair chop. Everyone’s doing it! Even Kim Kardashian West cut her hair and I seriously thought pigs would fly before she lost those amazing locks. Next to her booty, her hair is a major personal trademark of hers. But, she took the plunge and she looks great. I know that a lot of women out there take their style cues from celebs, so I’m thinking that there are a lot of ladies with recently trimmed ‘dos. I also know that short hair typically isn’t a favorite look for most men. So, we could have some men out there who aren’t in love with their ladies’ new look. And while I think women should generally be dressing and primping in a way that makes them feel great, when you’re in a relationship, your boo’s happiness is your happiness, so of course you want your man to love the way you look. If you think your guy doesn’t like your look, here’s what to do. Read more

How to not feel awkward as a new couple

    Anyone else reading all of these bloggers rip Dakota Johnson and Jamie Dornan apart and shaking their head? Everyone on the internet is saying Dakota and Jamie have no chemistry together and maybe even hate each other based on how they’ve been behaving during their PR run up to the release of Fifty Shades of Grey. People are reading way too much into this. Look, they’re two very talented actors. They’re good at their jobs. And that skill doesn’t necessarily mean they’re great at being themselves on camera. They’re feeling awkward. That’s it! Sheesh! Anyway, it got me thinking about how being a new couple in general can be really awkward, especially the first few times you make an appearance as an official duo. So, I thought I’d help you out! Read more

5 Essentials for the perfect Valentine’s Day date look

Valentine’s Day is basically already upon us. If you haven’t picked out your Valentine’s Day date look, um, what have you been doing? Valentine’s Day isn’t just any other day. You can’t throw on jeans and heels and call it a night. No way! You need a special razzle dazzle look! Well, now that I’ve totally stressed you out, I’m going to help you out! Here are the essentials you need for a perfect Valentine’s Day date look. Read more

What to do if you’re in a love triangle

Word on the street is that John Mayer and Katy Perry may be back together. Who knows if that’s true? I certainly don’t know for sure. But, I will say that it’s a scientific fact that John Mayer is the most charming man on the planet. He has a magnetism about him that no woman seems able to resist. Wish he would do some private tutoring for a few of my clients! Anyway, he infamously dated Taylor Swift and then Katy Perry. If you aren’t as into Taylor Swift’s 1989 as I am, you might not know that Taylor and Katy have some serious bad blood between them. (Also, you should definitely get into 1989. It’s such a good album!) John, Katy and Taylor have a classic love triangle going on with a lot of unresolved feelings among them all. And even though these three are megawatt celebrities, the situation is way more common than you probably think. It’s a small, small world and your love relationships and friendships are bound to overlap. If you find yourself in a love triangle situation, here’s what I think you should do. Read more

Four Ways To Avoid Becoming a Booty Call

How not to be his booty call

I received an e-mail from my buddy Andy the other day. She was casually seeing a guy for about four months. She made the mistake of sleeping with him the first time they went out.

Let me clarify, this isn’t a general mistake. There's no correlation between when a couple consummates a relationship and how long they stay together.

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3 Ways every single girl should spend her long weekend

Presidents’ Day and Valentine’s Day fall over the same weekend this year. For those who are coupled up, that means romantic long weekend trips, lazy afternoons cuddling and basically, just a full extra 24 hours to feel in love. For single girls, an extra day alone over the most romantic weekend of the year could be kinda traumatic. More time to think about being single can be really crappy. Fear not, single gals. I got you! Here’s how you should spend your love weekend. Read more