Category Archives: Relationships

Advice on everything related to love and relationships.

How will I know if he really loves me?

Relationship tips for new love
I go through mega music binges. I’m not the only one, right? Like, some weekends, I just want to listen to one artist and one artist only. Right now, I’m in a total Whitney Houston phase. She will forever and always be one of my favorites. And I will always be in mourning for losing one of the greats too soon. This afternoon, I was jamming out to “How Will I Know?” which is tied with “I Wanna Dance with Somebody” as my favorite Whitney song. Anyway, I was listening to the lyrics and I was thinking that she’s actually asking a really great question. How will you know when your boo really loves you? Here are three major hints. Read more

How to tell if he’s boyfriend material before the first date

I hear it from every single one of my single friends. “Dating is a complete waste of time.” And I get what you’re saying. After all, I’ve spent my fair share of time single. But, it really doesn’t have to be. You can weed out the losers and freaks and duds way before you even get to that first date with a few simple tips. I’m not saying that I have a magic formula to guarantee every first date turns into true love. No one, not even the best matchmakers in the world, can do that. But, I do know how to tell if someone is boyfriend material before the first date. Here’s how. Read more

My Three Golden Rules of Dinner Date Planning!

Variety's the very spice of life, that gives it all it's flavour.”― William Cowper When it comes planning a perfect night out, I am often asked how I choose the best restaurant for a successful date night. Naturally, there are a couple key things that should come into consideration when choosing the ideal dinner location. Things like the food preferences of your guest and ambiance should always be first on your list! I repeat, FIRST! Although these are very simple things to remember, I have been very surprised when I hear about many “first date nightmares.” Read more

You Deserve To Have Great Sex (No Matter How Long You’ve Been Together)

A woman has an orgasm during sex
I got a great e-mail from Heather today. She writes: “...I've worked hard to develop and keep a positive lifestyle for myself. I have a loving relationship with my friends and family. During this development process I met an amazing man. 100% different than any man I've ever dated. He's a great guy with morals, integrity, & ethics. When I met him for the first time ever he insisted we take things slow and we did. He respected it and always was respecting of me. After some time we got close, and became intimate. We then retained the same level of intimacy. Read more

What should you do when your man and you see things differently?

Please tell me you were as obsessed about the blue and black/white and gold dress phenomenon as I was. I mean, of course you were. You’re a human with internet connection. That one little dress set the internet ablaze. Some people took a look at the picture and saw a blue and black dress. Others saw a white and gold dress. It turns out, that it’s all about color theory and the way our brains perceive things and color isn’t real and blah bliggity blah. Whatever. The bottom is line is the people can look at the same image and see completely differently things. It happened with this dress picture in a very pointed way, but it happens in a million different ways in real life. And when you’re in a relationship with someone and he sees a situation differently than you do, it can be a real challenge. Here’s what to do. Read more

The Pettiness Problem

A woman contemplates whether he boyfriend is not right for her
Today I want to talk about what it is to be petty, and how it affects the people around you. I want to share a story with you that happened to a good friend of mine: His name is Brett. You can thank him for the magical words that come across this screen every single day. Without Brett, my grammar would be somewhere in between Britney Spears and Snoop Dogg. Read more