Category Archives: Dating
Reader Frustrated in More Ways Than One writes,
I am 26 and I live with my boyfriend, who is 27. My boyfriend is gentle and kind and loving. He will get up in the middle of the night to get me water if I don't feel good. He's my best friend. He wasn't always so sure that he loved me, though, and because of that, I doubt myself from time to time. It's only very seldom, because I honestly do know he loves me. He may have been unsure at first but I know he is sure now. But, because he doubted before, I doubt now. I never fully trust when he says he won't leave, because he thought he wanted to once. (We broke up for 3 months last year bc he said he was no longer in love with me.) I have no doubt in my mind though that we both love each other. I hate to even complain because I am so happy with so much of what we have, except our sex life. He is the best I've ever had... When I can have it. He never wants to have sex! I have actually begged. He refuses to even say there is a problem. Every time I bring it up, he gets very frustrated and storms out. He doesn't ever act that way, otherwise. He says "it's just not on my mind. Just ask me." The problem with that is, I do ask him. A lot. Multiple times a day. For days. Then I feel so defeated. I start to feel ashamed. I don't even want him to see me naked anymore. Then, he gets hurt that I don't want him to see me. Is there something I can say or do to help us have a somewhat active sex life again? I'm starting to resent him.
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What is it that men desire in a woman? If a man could describe his perfect woman, what would she be like?
These are just two of the questions women have been looking for answers to for generations, and to be brutally honest, they are questions that don’t have an actual answer. You see, despite what some “experts” tell you, there isn’t one type of woman all men go for.
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Relationships have their ups and downs. If yours could use some tweaking, here are 7 ways to boost your relationship:
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“Where have all the good ones gone?”
It’s the question that I am most commonly asked by men and women that I meet everyday.
People are constantly telling me “It’s so hard to date in a big city! Nobody here wants a relationship!”
That conversation is usually accompanied by a hefty list of first date disasters and daydreams about moving to a small town where – and I quote,
“They understand relationships more.”
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She couldn’t stand it anymore. She was so lonely. All he have her was one stupid hour a week. That’s right. This a-hole of a man was only able to spare his “girlfriend” one little hour a week. I’m not talking about sex either. That one hour included sex, foreplay, and communication. He loved it. He could get his rocks off whenever he wanted, without having to show her any commitment. For a player, it’s the perfect scenario.
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I know you are probably sad to see the sunny days and summer temperatures fade away, but in terms of dating, you should start getting very excited for fall.
Summer for a lot of people is all about finding a fling, looking for a hookup, and taking advantage of the nice weather to go out and meet as many different people as possible. Once fall comes however, a lot of daters change their tune. The colder temperatures send the brain a message to begin building a nest and preparing for the winter. Fall is a time when singles want to find that person that they are going to snuggle up with when it snows, to watch a movie with, and to maybe even take home for Thanksgiving dinner.
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