Here’s a question I get all the time from my female readers. “Can players change and become loyal, caring boyfriends?”
Can womanizers change their ways and become devoted loving husbands?
The answer is very simple. 100% yes they can. I used to be a womanizer myself. Back when I was in my 20’s I couldn’t stop dating. I was addicted to women. I loved the whole chase. Some of my friends even gave me the nickname, “Spot the Dog.”
When I used to go out on the town with my friends, they’d always lose me. They knew I’d probably found a woman to flirt with. They used to threaten to get me a leash so they could get me to lunch before it was dinnertime.
I was completely addicted to women. Then I woke up one day, and just decided I wanted something more. I wanted something with more substance. I gradually changed the way I interacted with women. I became more open to long term relationships, and I was passionate about finding a woman to settle down with.
So yes, womanizers can calm down and become great partners. But how do you know if the man you’re dating is over is womanizing days, or someone who’s likely to stray?
Here’s a very simple way to find out the truth…
If he’s a reformed player, and committed to making it work with you, he’ll focus his attention on you the whole night.
You go out for a date to either a restaurant or crowded bar. When you get there make sure you give him the seat that’s facing the crowd. Now you’re ready to find out his true intentions. If he’s a reformed player, and committed to making it work with you, he’ll focus his attention on you the whole night.
His conversation will flow, and he’ll keep eye contact with you at all times. Obviously he’s only human so he’ll probably shoot the odd glance at women walking past, but it’ll only be once or twice during the evening.
A man who’s still a womanizer will give himself away very quickly. He’ll start talking to you, and giving you his best moves, but his eyes will be all over the place. He’ll be like a kid in a candy store. There’ll be so many women for him to take in, he won’t be able to keep his focus on you. He’ll even lose his train of thought midway through conversation.
I call this trick my “Womanizer Exposure System” and it’s something you’ll hear me talk about quite a bit. If you’re with a man who keeps eye contact, and gives you 100% of his attention, there’s a good chance he’s looking for something long term. He’s a man that’s looking for that special woman, and chances are he hopes it’s going to be you.
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