Congratulations singles! You have made it through the couple-heavy holidays and all that’s left now is the home stretch. Hold your single self together through Valentine’s Day and you’re worry-free until Thanksgiving rolls back around.
So with less than a week left to go until your official re-emergence into the social world, you’re probably looking for some new solo activites to keep yourself busy. Should you dive a little deeper into your Netflix queue? Or take up a hobby – Crocheting has always seemed relaxing right? Anything to take your mind off the candy hearts and happy couples parading down the street.
Here’s an idea. Maybe instead of focusing your attention on what’s going on outside of your bedroom walls, you can take this time to attend to your own needs. Treat yourself to some much-deserved “you” time. The kind of “you” time that results in a much-deserved orgasm! And I’ve got just the thing (or 4) to help you along..
Spend quality time with an old friend
In a world where things are constantly changing and updating, it’s nice to know that some things can be counted on.. to provide multiple orgasms. After all, reliability is important to us singles – We like to know that we have someone to come home to! And while it’s hard to know what to expect from a partner, you can rest assured that your Magic Wand never runs out of batteries, never strays too far from its designated outlet, and never fails to put orgasms on the table.
Much like that perfect guy you dated in high school, the Magic Wand will ruin you for all other clitoral vibrators, and strangely, you will be okay with it. But unlike that same guy, who’s yearbook you scribbled in: “You’re perfect, Never change”.. It hasn’t! It will always remain the cadillac of all vibrators, your lady part’s one true love.
Make some self-discoveries
Take advantage of this alone time to get to know yourself a little better. You never know, you might even discover something new that has, up until this point, remained a mystery.. Like your G-Spot, for example! Some people consider it the holy grail of female sexual pleasure, while others question its very existence, but as those who have experienced the elusive G-Spot orgasm will tell you.. It is well worth the search!
Due to it’s location, some ladies have trouble finding and stimulating their G-spot solo, which is why you might need a little helper.. No, I’m not talking about a man. I’m talking about the Fifi by Je Joue! The FiFi is expertly designed and contoured to help you achieve the big G-O. With it’s perfectly contoured insertable shaft, and flexible external “ears”, it takes something familiar (clitoral stimulation) and mixes it with something less familiar (G-spot stimulation). The result: An elusive blended orgasm!
Take control of your pleasure
Isn’t it every girl’s dream to have a man that is willing to go down on them for hours at a time? Well, what if I was to tell you that you could have all the oral sex you wanted, and you wouldn’t even have to return the favor?
Lelo has taken women’s favorite sex act, usually performed by another, and put it into a solo toy. Say hello to the Ora 2 by LELO, a hand-held vibrator that actually simulates the sensation of oral sex with swirling strokes and fast flicks, to take you over the edge. With a variety of vibrating and rotating settings, plus an INTENSE turbo-boost function, this little beauty is rechargeable, waterproof and a must-have for your goodie drawer! No partner? No problem!
Add a Touch of Romance
Picture the way you would want your bedroom to look before a romantic tryst with the man of your dreams – There would probably be roses, maybe glasses of wine set out, slow sensual music playing, and candles everywhere, of course! So who says that you don’t deserve the same romantic treatment, regardless of whether there’s a man in your bed? In the absence of male attention, this is a time to show yourself some TLC. Do things that make you feel special and help you get in the mood, no matter what that mood may be.
Take my aromatherapy massage candles, for example. Sure you can use the luxurious oil in a sensual rubdown for two, but that same oil can also be used to moisturize and nourish your own dry skin. Light them up while enjoying a long, steamy bath and then give yourself a sensual massage! Help yourself feel relaxed and pampered – After all, you deserve it.
Treat Yourself
Since you are your own Valentine this year, and you deserve the very best, why not gift yourself with something to commemorate this year of you? No, I’m not talking about buying yourself a box of Ferrero Rochers to eat in one sitting (which doesn’t sound that bad, to be honest). I’m talking jewelry, and not just any jewelry.. I’m talking the kind of jewelry that can bring you to orgasm: The Crave Vesper.
The Vesper puts a sexy twist on wearable sex toy technology – It is both sleek and beautiful necklace as a necklace, while still being a discreet and powerful vibrator. In a way, it’s kind of like your own little secret – You can wear it out on the town, all the while knowing what kind of tricks it can do. Give yourself a gift that is every bit as sexy as you are! Trust me, this is one sex toy you will never want to stash away in your goodie drawer.
Valentine’s Day is all about celebrating love, and that includes self-love too! So whether it’s the gift of multiple orgasms or a relaxing night in, treat yourself to the things that you love. And instead of worrying about all the things you don’t have through this holiday, focus on the most important person you do have in your life.. You!
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